Gangbangs (89)

So i can keep dreaming but will also keep looking for some naughty bi guys to play with Sir and i

xXx A Persistant DD xXx

I have no problem with Internet fantasy per se, but some people try really hard to keep the fantasy alive!

I thought an advert in "rugby club monthly" might work, but I was persuaded otherwise.

I think thats a little over simplifying why they don't turn up. Of course one or two of them might be thinking "eeew god no!" but are just trying to be polite

Generaly speaking what does the woman have to do to perform in a gangbang environment? Most women who go dry can get lube so thats not a requirement. All she really has to do to get what she wants is turn up (arguably she will get what she wants but the theory is right )

Where as for the guys there are issues with getting erect, not cumming too soon, being as good as whoever else turns up, being worried about cock size. Oh and not to mention while the woman dosn't care what you look like you have to find her in some way appealing unless you're still 18 and can get hard at the drop of a hat. Oh those were the days....

I mean honestly who wants to be the guy in the gangbang who has to get hard and go in after somebody with a 10incher who's been hammering at the girl for the past 30minutes given her 5 orgasms and unloaded enough cum to drown a horse? ....No pressure eh?

Best way I'v seen to organise one is to organise a social meeting, that way people get a chance to familiarise themselves with each other its a pritty nervy experience first time and for both females and males. It always worked better if a couple of females were interested in having a gangbang as well.

A FLUFFER is essential, someone or possibly both a male/female that are confident enough to arouse others, make people feel comfortable and encourage others to join in. I was the fluffer at several gangbangs and it realy did make a difference to the others.

Within a bdsm role I think it would be easier to organise and potentialy have less no-shows (this will always happen).

Arranging a social meeting i.e. a bdsm munch/gangbang meet. Those that are seriously interested will come along. When everybody is comfortable then the idea can be introduced to the conversation and a date and suitable venue decided. Normaly those that are organising the gangbang will have somewhere in mind.

Orgies are easier to arrange as a private party with everybody invited understanding that this is part of the evening.

Guys who cant perform or who are nervous shoulad always be made to feel comfortable afterwards as it sounds like a mans dream but on the night its totaly different it took me 2 parties to finaly produce the goods, but as i said all was not lost as I encouraged others and created a fun atmosphere.

Most people that attended were within a social network either online or from other activities. We always had one or two people at the parties who werent participating just to keep an eye on the group, for several reasons im sure i dont need to explain.

If someone gets too drunk "douge courage" can sometimes get too much, it doesnt have to be an issue but something those not participating can keep an eye on. Its a long night so a suttle few words to individuals that unless they sober up no fun. If they argue then remove them for the party.

Gangbangs, orgies, squirtting parties, bukkake's, female strapon nights, male rape nights (one or two guys and a group of females) so many different fun nights.

The more you organise the less no-shows as well especially if previous parties have been a sucess.

Opening up to personal fantasies is alwyas a good idea too. I had never made a female squirt before and a party was organised especially for this and for several girls who had also never experienced it. The party was for a specific thing and those boundaries were adheared to which also made participants feel safe and encouraged them to attend further parties.

Wish more people would organise things like that up here especialy with a kink twist. Ive been to several great parties in Scotalnd and I'd love to watch Lima fucked by another female ooops did i say that out loud

"denil isnae just a riva in Egypt" Terry Lawson - Glue by Irvine Welsh

Cuming inside the female is normaly not allowed, condoms are a must no rubber no fun. There is more than one hole to stick your cock.

And there is no pressure, if it doesnt happen it doesnt happen its about having fun not about if you can perform.

Creating the right atmosphere is more important and the focus should alwyas be on the females safety, comfort and enjoyment.

"denil isnae just a riva in Egypt" Terry Lawson - Glue by Irvine Welsh

Who said I was speaking about your experiences?

so many different angles have been brought up it seems there could be several different threads for each 'style' of gangbang.

the whole 'men not turning up' thing is suprising. i'm not sure if the majority thinking is that it's because they are worried about the competition, or, because they can't imagine interacting with a bunch of other men in this way ( is it a bit too 'gay' for some to be naked and horny with a bunch of other guys ,even if you're all there to fuck a woman ? )

i guess the looks issue could be a problem; horses for courses and all that. i'm sure people would be more relaxed and having fun if everyone's reading from the same hymn sheet. as has been mentioned, some kind of pre-meet or 'theme' would probably work. though i reckon it would be naive to imagine you could ( or would want to ) replicate an american style porn cast !

fem-dom gang bang on a guy sounds like much fun. i can't help but wonder though, wether a woman could take more numbers over a space of time in her pussy than most guys could manage strap ons up the bum. there has to be a health and safety issue there i'm thinking ...?

#thought# would fem-doms need or use fluffers ?

speaking of which; the post about fluffers was most insightful i think. that would be one of the most important roles, albeit one of the least obvious. freindly flirty happy fluffers surely would keep everyone on course for a succesful gang bang.

having pontificated so, i have to fess up to never having had the pleasure. in fact, even a simple 3sum has evaded me so far heh. yet, it has long been an ambition of mine. mmf , ffm, im bi so the possibilities are nice and varied :P more relevantly; i've always wanted to be spanked with an audience of some kind, or 'shared' amongst doms/spankers. i reckon a 'gangbang' of maybe 3 femdoms and me would be handalable and much fun and tbh, the fluffer 'job' makes me tingle nice.

of course, a male fluffer at a womans gangbang might mean even fewer men turned up hehe ,but as has been said, a little planning can go a long way

thankyou op for the opportunity to blah about this a bit xxx

OllieVW wrote: I'd love to watch Lima fucked by another female ooops did i say that out loud

you did and I heard it

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