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Wanky men in clubs - a solution? (81)

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18 Nov 08, 11:50 PM
BadWulf
UK(TA), 6 yrs

As proccie says what is worse for me are those that just stand too close and stare, sucking out the energy

I am slightly amused at the whole outrage that coo, people might find what we do sexual Though yeah in ya face stuff would require umm direct action.

had it happen at SWAMP at old venue, the guy was discrete and not interfering so it didnt bug me, with the circumstances you describe that puts them within swatting range of ya implements doesn't it?

A case of 'Caveat Wanktor' perhaps?

My, what sharp teeth I have.

Edited 18 Nov 08, 11:59 PM by BadWulf

19 Nov 08, 12:08 AM
Doghouse_Reilly
UK(MK), 6 yrs

If a guy did something like that in a nilla club the bouncers would chuck him out and then beat eight shades of shit out of him free of charge. Maybe fet clubs just have the wrong sort of bouncers?

Anybody who says true is stranger than fiction has never seen tentacle porn.

19 Nov 08, 12:26 AM
BadWulf
UK(TA), 6 yrs

What, not vicious thugs you mean? what relevance does a vanilla club have to this thread?

My, what sharp teeth I have.

Edited 19 Nov 08, 12:27 AM by BadWulf

19 Nov 08, 12:30 AM
SemiTrainedApe
UK, 4 yrs

The etiquette of these bizarre situations sounds like a nightmare.

Is it acceptable to shove wankymen away when they get too close, or would you be chucked out for assaulting someone?

What happens when a wankymen with poor spatial awareness misjudges the distance or trajectory of his ejaculate, and it lands on a fellow punter?

Is everyone treading very carefully as they walk around, laughing at newbies who are slipping over on patches of sticky white love piss?

This is what happens when you find a stranger in the Alps.

19 Nov 08, 1:49 AM
TVPtvp
UK, 6 yrs

wonderer wrote:
Wanky men in clubs - a solution?

For some reason a possible solution to this much discussed problem occurred to me in the night.

Apparently there's sometimes a problem in clubs when certain men who have a tendency to become aroused by the proceedings and indulge in acts of self gratification in a way which others find unpleasant. It occurred to me that maybe men arriving on their own could be interrogated about their habits by a suitably qualified woman, and if they did have a tendency to self abuse in these circumstances (or a past record), they should pay an extra fee for the hire of a chastity device, fitted on entry and removed on exit, the key held by the event management. It seems to me this might be a satisfactory solution for all concerned.

Does it make sense. I've never been to one of these clubs - just read about the problem on previous threads.

(I do apologise for the use of that vulgar w word in the title - used for continuity with an earlier thread. A gentleman such as myself prefers to use more discursive language when referring to such matters).

(Edited for my normal crop of typos)

This is ridiculous, as well as scapegoating and probably against the law. I'm not a wankyman, but I think that most trouble at clubs is caused by totally neurotic women. Hedwig works at Sssshh!, which is aimed at totally neurotic women, so what she says doesn't count. I think I've been harassed by one of these women for several months now, even though I haven't seen her for several months, but it's psychological because I keep thinking about her and this is probably her plan. I was once harassed by a wanky woman who was wanking in the middle of a club, then I noticed her and she gave me a dirty look, as if I wasn't supposed to have noticed her wanking.

Edited 19 Nov 08, 2:30 AM by TVPtvp

19 Nov 08, 2:47 AM
HisHoliness
UK(KT), 6 yrs

wonderer wrote:
Wanky men in clubs - a solution?

Hmmmm......it's a sticky one!

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19 Nov 08, 3:14 AM
firemynx_B
UK(B), 11 yrs

I can imagine this was the response she was going for ..... yes. Probably a red head, they are trouble.

TVPtvp wrote:
I think I've been harassed by one of these women for several months now, even though I haven't seen her for several months, but it's psychological because I keep thinking about her and this is probably her plan.

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19 Nov 08, 8:47 AM
happy_bunny
UK, 4 yrs

possibly put a taped line around around each play area, if your not in the scene you don't cross the line, a sub can drop badly if someone brakes the spell they are in. most people know who the players are and if someone one looks out of place and is not in company when entering alarm bells should be buzzing in peoples heads, and they should be pointed out to management words said, and gently lead out if they don't belong or they don't behave.

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19 Nov 08, 8:54 AM
Backdooruk
UK(BA), 12 yrs

LittleMissEvil wrote:
The key to the voyerism bit would be 67(1)b 'he knows that the other person does not consent to being observed for his sexual gratification.'

It has to be a private act first though, clearly soemthing taking place knowingly in the full view of others fails on that part.

- Chris

Anyone with a brain is manipulable. Only the truly unimaginative are difficult to control.

19 Nov 08, 5:37 PM
Hedwig
UK(E), 4 yrs

TVPtvp wrote:

wonderer wrote:
Wanky men in clubs - a solution?

For some reason a possible solution to this much discussed problem occurred to me in the night.

Does it make sense. I've never been to one of these clubs - just read about the problem on previous threads.

(Edited for my normal crop of typos)

And 'neurotic' has been the word that persons has used for decades to not take women seriously. Good work with misogyni there. And FYI, I do not work at Sh! anymore (which is also the way to spell it).

Oh, I forgot. There is so many reasons why what you say does not count. But I will not list them here.

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