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Not My Kink (1)

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Posted by maihri on Mon 10 Nov 08, 11:19 AM to maihri's blog.

Whilst in the shower I had a thought- I think people who make love with the lights out are weird. You see, it's not my kink. I like to see what I'm doing, the expression on my partner's face, the intensity of their gaze.

I don't like the light too bright- it can be distracting- and I just *know* that my wrinkles are more visible, but a good view of the proceedings, well, what can I say? <weg> In fact on the rare occasions when I've made love in the dark (can't sleep- what else do you do?!) it has definitely felt kinky!

Playing now, that's a different kettle of fish altogether. Blindfolds certainly have their place, especially in a public play space. It helps to keep me focused. And it keeps me guessing :-)

Such a simple thing, but making out in the dark- hey it's not my kink.

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10 Nov 08, 11:22 AM
Illuminated
UK, 3 yrs
I think making love when you've just woken in the middle of the night and it's really dark...is astonishingly sexy.

It's urgent and uncompromising and thrilling and feels wonderful.

D/s stuff...I find easier in the light.

God alone knows where I'd be dribbling candle wax if I couldn't see her properly.

;)

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