I Think I Just Need to be Sad for a While (5)

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Posted by fyrephin on Mon 3 Nov 08, 1:11 AM

Hence "closed for refurbishment".

And yes, I appreciate all the messages of support I receive. But bear in mind I have Borderline Personality Disorder, and consider this:

"These fears of abandonment seem to be related to difficulties feeling emotionally connected to important persons when they are physically absent, leaving the individual with BPD feeling lost and perhaps worthless"

"Distortions in cognition and sense of self can lead to frequent changes in long-term goals, career plans, jobs, friendships, gender identity, and values. Sometimes people with BPD view themselves as fundamentally bad, or unworthy. They may feel unfairly misunderstood or mistreated, bored, empty, and have little idea who they are. Such symptoms are most acute when people with BPD feel isolated and lacking in social support, and may result in frantic efforts to avoid being alone."

Basically - I could do with a cuddle. A proper one.

And that's all I have to say I guess.

Edited to make it clear, its Borderline Personality Disorder, not Bi-Polar

Edited Mon 3 Nov 08, 2:14 PM by fyrephin

Replies

3 Nov 08, 4:23 AM
impresskitt
UK(NN), 3 yrs

Cuddle's are essential which makes it doubly sad we don't get enough of them. Virtual hugs to you x

3 Nov 08, 8:59 AM
Fridayschild
UK, 6 mths Wraps my legs and arms around you and rocks you gently xxxx...whispers: Everything is going to be ok.

3 Nov 08, 9:10 AM
Miss_Jade_Jones
2 yrs
Im gonna send you big BIG hugs xxx as im in an odd place myself at the moment and i know how much hugs help
jj x
Honourary Angel

3 Nov 08, 10:39 AM
xxx_adeena_xxx
UK(B), 19 mths
This support board might help you and possibly be more productive for you than posting on here about how you feel.
Hope you feel better soon:
http://www.healthboards.com/boards/forumdisplay....

3 Nov 08, 1:50 PM
MissKitty
UK, 7 yrs

I wish I could give you a hug, many hugs in fact. I understand and read who I was only a few short years ago in those words. It won't stop me offering you my support and I don't abandon friends, especially those in need.
My best friend where I live has BPD and it's hard to see her crash down but it's a friendsjob to help them back up again.
It's strange but without the bad times we don't appreciate the good ones, and good times will come again *hugs*
Miss Kitty =^.^=
www.cloven-heart.com
"It's better to be hated for who I am, rather than loved for who I'm not"


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