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What is the most difficult lesson to learn? (73)

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3 Nov 08, 7:27 PM
kitty_claw
UK(TN), 4 yrs

dizziekizzie wrote:

TaintedDesire wrote:
To let go completely, also to be totally open, I tend to keep things close to my chest and it's very hard for me to open up to somebody else and let them in.

I'm very self-reliant, and have always been of the notion that the only person in life you can ever rely on to not let you down is yourself, and to trust somebody else not to let me down is very hard for me.

Also communicating how I'm feeling, I've always, in the past, just shut down, pushed people away rather than tell them how I'm feeling, in this lifestyle communication is a must and is a lesson I'm still learning.

This is the same for me, I am getting better but it is difficult and a hard habit to break

Yep, that's me as well. Sometimes no matter how much I want to open up, I just can't. The words don't come out!

Kitty

3 Nov 08, 7:32 PM
whelpy
UK(OX), 5 yrs

Miss_Lead wrote:
Patience

Takes note

Monday is a hard way to spend one-seventh of your life

3 Nov 08, 7:38 PM
Shamonu
UK, 7 yrs

merrynb99 wrote:
To just shut up. And submit.

NEVER, in a bleedin' million years!!!

She's so pure, Moses could'nt even part her knees.....Joan Rivers on Marie Osmond.

3 Nov 08, 8:09 PM
trixi69
UK(SO), 5 yrs

candyflip wrote:
That submission is conditional when based on trust, but trust is complete when based on unconditional submission.

How wonderfully put ... and sooooooooo accurate.

4 Nov 08, 3:33 PM
Soul_Alloy
UK(PR), 5 yrs

That your own happiness is worth fighting for

Better to be a diamond with a flaw then a pebble with none
Assumption is the mother of all cockups
Behind every good slut is a great Mistress

4 Nov 08, 3:39 PM
Xx_Rob_V_xX
UK(MK), 3 yrs

JennyM wrote:
Not to fall in love with someone who will never fall in love with you. Once you grasp the concept though, it's easy-peasy.

SO true.

4 Nov 08, 3:47 PM
taliabee
3 yrs

JennyM wrote:
Not to fall in love with someone who will never fall in love with you. Once you grasp the concept though, it's easy-peasy.

oh god, yes!! but why do we always go for those ones??? other than that, the stupid amount of declensions of greek nouns are a mare!!! (latin was easier, honest -lol!) t xx

5 Nov 08, 6:04 PM
LeatherKate
UK(B), 4 yrs

subseeksslut wrote:

JennyM wrote:
Not to fall in love with someone who will never fall in love with you. Once you grasp the concept though, it's easy-peasy.

SO true.

That was quite thought provoking. Thanks!

I think the hardest lesson is the lesson in personal choice.

[=-Embrace the beautiful lies, the chronic insanity of the sane-=]

5 Nov 08, 6:06 PM
leatherbound
3 yrs

That I wanted this and not to keep excusing my behaviour becuase of what my Dom has done.

5 Nov 08, 6:09 PM
twisted_kitty
UK(OX), 4 yrs

keeping my mouth shut ...

Life is a biatch ... fuck her dont take her too seriously but love her with all your heart!
comments are always edited cause i is a typo princess innit though ... am i bothered

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