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IC : Web boards : D/s Relationships : "Compromise"
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Compromise (26)

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Wed 15 Oct 08, 7:18 PM
TheTroll
6 mths
What level of compromise, if any, are you willing to give and at what stage?
15 Oct 08, 7:20 PM
Avralivia
UK(RG), 18 mths
Y!*
If you dont compromise to some extent any relationship is doomed, whether D/s M/s Vanilla or whatever.

Of course as a Dom/me you can do so without making it obvious, or as if you are in any way giving in or compromising cant you ;)

Senno Ekto Gamat

15 Oct 08, 7:20 PM
Cliodna
UK, 6 mths
Y!*
Crikey , thats a broad question....surely its completely subjective to the moment????

"I really want you to really want me, but I really dont know if you can do that"

15 Oct 08, 8:48 PM
Attitude_Adjuster*
UK(M), 2 yrs

Daddy2point0 wrote:
Compromise

What level of compromise, if any, are you willing to give and at what stage?

which film to watch for which hole gets tortured.... :-D The blockbuster shuts at 10 so has to before that.

And all men kill the thing they love, By all let this be heard, Some do it with a bitter look, Some with a flattering word, The coward does it with a kiss, The brave man with a sword!

15 Oct 08, 8:51 PM
LadyAlpha*
UK, 2 yrs
£
Anything, everything, nothing. Each in its place.

Lady Alpha

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15 Oct 08, 9:23 PM
Fridayschild
UK, 6 mths
If you want a long term relationship you have to compramise, if it is to much then i suppose your not in the right one. I'm not willing to do it straight away, when i have just met someone though...takes time for me to feel that it is something real and then i'm willing to negotiate.

Edited 15 Oct 08, 9:24 PM by Fridayschild

15 Oct 08, 9:31 PM
chartreuse
UK(BA), 2 yrs
Daddy2point0 wrote:
Compromise

What level of compromise, if any, are you willing to give and at what stage?

With regard to what?

"Truth is stranger than fiction."
"It is better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for who you are not."

15 Oct 08, 9:36 PM
Sunny_Disposition
13 mths
Daddy2point0 wrote:
Compromise

What level of compromise, if any, are you willing to give and at what stage?

On the first date, I might agree to compromise on the choice of wine.

15 Oct 08, 9:38 PM
newfavourite*
UK(S), 14 mths

Sunny_Disposition wrote:
Daddy2point0 wrote:
Compromise

What level of compromise, if any, are you willing to give and at what stage?

On the first date, I might agree to compromise on the choice of wine.

NO way. Then it would be a slippery slope down Jacobs Creek. The first date is a time for your choice of wine, your choice of restaurant and your choice of anal... I mean after dinner mints.

Equality is over-rated

15 Oct 08, 9:45 PM
DanSubSeat
UK, 11 mths
Avralivia wrote:
If you dont compromise to some extent any relationship is doomed, whether D/s M/s Vanilla or whatever.

Of course as a Dom/me you can do so without making it obvious, or as if you are in any way giving in or compromising cant you ;)

Have to agree with this. If it's a relationship you want to last for any length of time, then there has to be compromise at some point.

The AI of Earths NPC's is shocking...

15 Oct 08, 9:47 PM
verte*
UK(E), 5 yrs
Daddy2point0 wrote:
Compromise

What level of compromise, if any, are you willing to give and at what stage?

A vast number of things, really, for the right people; everything from that initial 'he doesn't have dark curly hair but I'll fuck him anyway' to certain elements of my character I've been told to exercise some self-control over (my short temper), to my politics. I think it might be much quicker to ask what people WON'T compromise...

"Well-behaved women rarely make history"

Edited 15 Oct 08, 9:50 PM by verte

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