Submersion... (2)

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Posted by scarlet_sub on Mon 13 Oct 08, 5:47 PM

Just some musings of mine while I was walking home from work today.

I was pondering on that subject of whether you can be dom without a sub, and if that means that you can't be submissive without a dom? 'Course it's not as simple as that.

I'm submissive sexually but when I'm involved with someone that I really care about my submission becomes much deeper. Before I actually had real time D/s relationships I couldn't imagine wanting to sit at someone's feet. Wanting to be tied up was one thing, but actually desiring to sit at some guy's feet was an alien concept. And yet when I really let someone in that close enough, it just feels right.

There are yet still deeper levels of submission that I want to go to but I know that I can't get there unless I'm with someone who's not about to duck out at any second.

I've jumped off that cliff with a few doms but you really have to be skydiving in tandem, rather than than finding yourself falling, alone, getting wrecked on the rocks below. Yes, you do pick yourself up, clean your wounds and move on but things become a fraction more difficult for the next dom to cross your path.

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13 Oct 08, 7:02 PM
Jahc99
UK, 2 yrs

scarlet_sub wrote:
I've jumped off that cliff with a few doms but you really have to be skydiving in tandem, rather than than finding yourself falling, alone, getting wrecked on the rocks below. Yes, you do pick yourself up, clean your wounds and move on but things become a fraction more difficult for the next dom to cross your path.
I like that - very well put.
Now go and tell an egg how to suck granny.

13 Oct 08, 7:13 PM
Caracal
UK(SS), 22 mths

scarlet_sub wrote:
I've jumped off that cliff with a few doms but you really have to be skydiving in tandem, rather than than finding yourself falling, alone, getting wrecked on the rocks below. Yes, you do pick yourself up, clean your wounds and move on but things become a fraction more difficult for the next dom to cross your path.
Letting yourself go with a dom;- it is horrifying to find yourself hurtling downwards alone when you thought you had a buddy alongside so always make sure you really know who you take that plunge with.
My wish is my demand of you.
Your whim is your command to me.
That is the elegant dance of switchcraft!
Kerepakupai merú - Waterfall of the deepest place.
The nice lady with the whip.


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