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| Sun 12 Oct 08, 8:41 PM djin_bleu UK(NW), 5 yrs    |
I'd like to hear all views on chastity whether male or female, the benefits and drawbacks of both user and keyholder, your views are greatly appreciated.
I would say i'm adept at not needing a device, if i am told not to wank i won't do it, usually it turns me on even more to know i can't but it's intriguing to be bound and have a person hold that freedom and release in the form of a key, like a trophy I know it would please my owner being the evil person she can be and no doubt she'd simply delight in knowing i was in pain!!! In my everyday life it's not very practical but i'm sure there is an agreement that could be met to keep it on at certains times and take it off for usual things like work. Does chastity change who you are as it stops you fiddling with your bits? Have you found that it makes you more aggressive or docile? Are you more maleable or do you switch off? *She who rides the Demon is afraid to dismount*
~* A hopeless dreamer she said, eyes of cloud and feet of lead *~
~** NO i'm not O ~fucking~ K!! **~ | ||
| 12 Oct 08, 8:44 PM mini_velvet UK(EH), 6 yrs |
From past threads on the subject I think it affects males and females differently. It seems to be a much bigger fascination for male subs than their fem counterparts. I like orgasm control a lot but chastity just makes me frustrated and resentful.
I prefer forced orgasms to denied ones No colours or shapes | ||
| 12 Oct 08, 8:52 PM kitty_claw UK(TN), 4 yrs |
Me too.
Although a few denied ones before the forced ones is good too | ||
| 12 Oct 08, 8:55 PM mini_velvet UK(EH), 6 yrs |
Oh yes! Like I say I enjoy orgasm control as well as force, but long term absolute chastity is a complete no no. I once read about a fem sub who had been in chastity for over 2 years, I can think of few things worse. No colours or shapes | ||
| 12 Oct 08, 8:58 PM djin_bleu UK(NW), 5 yrs |
I had a convo tonight about why someone thinks all males should wear chastity devices, cos it stops them inadvertantly fiddling with their bits, it's unhygenic etc, quite a different reason but interesting. When i fondle i get aroused, so it's automatic for me! *She who rides the Demon is afraid to dismount*
~* A hopeless dreamer she said, eyes of cloud and feet of lead *~
~** NO i'm not O ~fucking~ K!! **~ | ||
| 12 Oct 08, 9:07 PM chartreuse UK(BA), 6 yrs  |
When you fondle what... yourself or your Mistress? Do you need to fondle to get aroused? Is it the only way arousal happens for you?
"Truth is stranger than fiction." | ||
| 12 Oct 08, 9:12 PM djin_bleu UK(NW), 5 yrs |
No, fondle myself ofcourse, the mere thought of fondling her highness would get me castrated, hung, shot, burned and castrated all over again! I never need to fondle myself when someone says or does something sexy to me, little head has a tendency to pop up to see what the fuss is about! Sometimes i do fiddle with my self and it gets me going! *She who rides the Demon is afraid to dismount*
~* A hopeless dreamer she said, eyes of cloud and feet of lead *~
~** NO i'm not O ~fucking~ K!! **~ | ||
| 12 Oct 08, 9:19 PM chartreuse UK(BA), 6 yrs |
How many times can one man be castrated?
You "fiddle" with yourself and it "gets you going"? Disgusting!!!
You make your cock sound like an engine that needs to be cranked to start it.
"Truth is stranger than fiction." | ||
| 12 Oct 08, 9:20 PM Red_Spark UK(LE), 5 yrs |
I've never been interested in keeping a male in long-term chastity - I enjoy sex far too much  and artificial substitutes just don't do it for me like the real thing! However, having said that, I do love the aesthetics of chastity belts - the appearance, and... I also love the idea of using it as a tease, keeping him locked up in a chastity belt and preferably also a cage, posture collar and other heavy ankle and wrist restraints while I enjoy playing with myself in full view for a while. 
On a day to day basis I guess I can see the attraction as it helps to build anticipation of the time of release, and also the turn-on of knowing you have that much control, but it's something I'd only like to do occasionally - to add a bit of spice to an otherwise ordinary working day or week. Having said all that, if I did have another sub as well as my partner (a purely hypothetical situation as I am mono/exclusive and have no inclination to be otherwise), I may consider putting them into relatively long-term chastity to emphasise their secondary nature in the relationship and lack of permitted sexual contact. "Be quiet and come with me. I won't betray you." | ||
| 12 Oct 08, 9:31 PM djin_bleu UK(NW), 5 yrs |
I can see the appeal of that side, the secondary nature to the relationship. I tend to agree with a few of you that say it would kill any desire to serve and also produce a feeling of resentment so i guess as you say it's important to use the device sparingly. *She who rides the Demon is afraid to dismount*
~* A hopeless dreamer she said, eyes of cloud and feet of lead *~
~** NO i'm not O ~fucking~ K!! **~ | ||
| 12 Oct 08, 9:35 PM Subbenn UK(SW), 3 yrs |
I'd try it, but I'd get fustrated quickly and worry a little bit about the health consequences (ie, can you clean properly down there if there's plastic/steel in the way). |
