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on Thu 9 Oct 08, 10:19 AM to misstressclare's blog.
Ok thinking I am not sure is good for one
When I dont think to hard life seems fine.Nilla ticks along and no real probs at all, not many can say that.
Then I stupidly do the deep and meaningfull analizing of my world. I get grumpy and think bollocks why do I do this.
Defineing what I want is not hard anyone who knows me well will know what it is I seek and on the hole I potter along finding frogs and hope one might actually fit world.
Now and then I meet someone I think maybe I want a higher level so a mix is wanted. I doubt I am very diffrent from most people and on here mixing Nilla and D/S.
I think finding someone in Nilla is bad enough, being a single parent could never just do D/S all the time, but the thought of just nilla all the time well bores me silly.
I wonder if in the long run fate as in nilla of meeting someone will come along and find a mix that fits my world. I am upfront and say if you enter my life you must take on board the hole of me, why then do a lot of subs not listen.
Ok rant over not sure makes much sence, is it harder for a mistress as a single paretn or a sub single parent, or a single sub looking for a mistress, does it boil down to fate or the spark.right place right time hard when you cant go out much live in a small town and people dont take on board nilla life. Oh well bk to frogs x
| 9 Oct 08, 11:11 AM CPeccavi 4 yrs |
All children should be sent up chimneys. They're sound proofed pretty well so the adults get time and space to play. You'll get there. x The most powerful weapon on earth is the human soul on fire. ~Ferdinand Foch |
| 9 Oct 08, 11:27 AM misstressclare UK(TA), 4 yrs £ |
lol |
| 9 Oct 08, 11:29 AM sheGives UK(GL), 4 yrs |
I don't think it makes any difference sub or Dom/me when it comes to being a single parent, it is something which is never easy, to find that balance and for someone to accept that whole. I'm a single parent, sub single parent, and my son who is only 8, his life and my relationship will always come first, will always be my priority, and my D/s wants/needs/desires certainly come in behind all of that. I dont think its easy to manage at times regardless and that being sub/Dom or whatever is just another thing added to the "mix" so to speak. But I totally relate to what you have written . . .both the situation, getting it to "fit" and those frogs! Best Wishes ~sG~ "Let your mind start a journey thru a strange new world. Leave all thoughts of the world you knew before. Let your soul take you where you long to be...Close your eyes let your spirit start to soar, and you'll live as you've never lived before.” Erich Fromm |
| 9 Oct 08, 11:33 AM misstressclare UK(TA), 4 yrs £ |
Well if a prince sub comes Ill let u know x |
| 9 Oct 08, 6:05 PM shyslave01 UK(BS), 9 yrs |
As a sub I believe it comes down to the right spark and if a sub finds a Mistress he likes and kknows that she wants the nilla mix,then he should be prepared to take on all that she is and all that goes with her in both nilla and D/s. If not then he is not being true to himself or the Mistress. |
| 9 Oct 08, 7:17 PM misstressclare UK(TA), 4 yrs £ |
Agreed down to the spark x |
