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Age difference between domme/sub (88)

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19 Oct 08, 3:15 PM
phoenixlove
UK(NW), 3 yrs
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all my pets are older then me in age...but i tend to see my self more as a

spiteful spoilt brat younger sister Mistress

MrBromley wrote:
Age difference between domme/sub

As a domme or sub are you more comfortable (or tend towards) the sub or domme being older than yourself or younger than yourself? Does an 'auntie and nephew' scenario work if 'auntie' is 30 and 'nephew' is 55? If you prefer a younger/older partner for play, are you also more attracted to younger/older partners outside of play?

19 Oct 08, 3:43 PM
verte
UK(E), 8 yrs
My partners are both four years older than me. Surprising, as I always used to go for older people (and generally women my age or younger still don't do anything for me AT ALL. Older women, however...), but with the new bad-fairy-sub-who-sodomises side of things maybe I'll be chasing pretty young boys! Though mostly the bottoms I've eyeing have belonged to slightly older boys/men. I quite like playing the naughty little girl fucking and abusing her daddy.

"Well-behaved women rarely make history"

19 Oct 08, 6:13 PM
Esinem
UK(SE), 12 yrs
It must be Groundhog Day!!

To save considerable unnecessary duplication of effort, go to web boards and type "age difference" into the search box...

You are as safe as you want to be...but no safer ;-)

19 Oct 08, 6:55 PM
spirifer
UK, 6 yrs
I've always been attracted to older men. I will really never get into the whole "Daddy dom" thing, (although YKIOK, everyone!) but I just like older men.

If he's hirsute and sports facial hair, then that's all to the good, too. :-p

The state has no business in the bedrooms of the nation - Pierre Trudeau
A denizen of a right little, tight little island.

19 Oct 08, 6:57 PM
Snakehips
9 yrs
Esinem wrote:
It must be Groundhog Day!!

To save considerable unnecessary duplication of effort, go to web boards and type "age difference" into the search box...

Don't be such a fucking kill joy.

19 Oct 08, 8:26 PM
Esinem
UK(SE), 12 yrs
Snakehips wrote:
Esinem wrote:
It must be Groundhog Day!!

To save considerable unnecessary duplication of effort, go to web boards and type "age difference" into the search box...

Don't be such a fucking kill joy.

Hey ho, I guess recycling is all the rage these days :-)

No conclusion will be reached. Some think it matters, some don't. Some like to share common past experiences with partners, others find the lack of them enhances a relationship. Umm, that's it. Enjoy!

You are as safe as you want to be...but no safer ;-)

25 Oct 08, 12:41 PM
femsup
UK(NW), 4 yrs
The_Morrighan wrote:
DomRoss wrote:
For me i prefer older Subs, I've always enjoyed older women and i seem to have more in common with older women

I always thought that if someone was much younger than me, then the reference points would be lost. Actually, when my man told me he likes Elvis, I told him to get dressed and leave (that's a real deal-breaker for me, I always thought that people who like Elvis have something wrong with them), good job he told me that Bowie is a genius! I still don't think we have much in common (apart from Bowie) but we like each other a lot, and that's all that matters.

Agree with you on both.I have found a surprising amount of nutters and reactionaries love Elvis.

27 Nov 08, 5:49 AM
wonderer
UK, 5 yrs

Evere since puberty I've always fancied "older" women because of their greater sophistication, sexual experience and superiority. The definition of "older" has moved on of course - when I was 14 it was about 18-21; at 34 I married a wonderful talented experienced woman of 42. At 51 and having discovered kink my tastes have broadened, and due to a change in my working circumstances I find myself surrounded by delectable under 25s ... but instead of lusting I find myself thinking how even more gorgeous they'll be by the time they reach about 39. I guess 39-55 is my most fancied range now though younger women with maturity and sophistication can interest me too.

Edited to change 40 to 39.

Edited 27 Nov 08, 6:14 AM by wonderer

27 Nov 08, 8:54 PM
Slutty_Smurf
UK(BL), 3 yrs
I tend to find that I look for older doms. It doesn't matter if they are slightly younger but I find that it makes me feel more submissive to have an older dom. Even in 'nilla relationships in the past I have only gone out with older people. I think it is a maturity thing also and the fact that you have someone on your level, to talk to outside play.

Michelle x

I wander'd lonely as a cloud That floats on high o'er vales and hills, When all at once I saw a crowd, A host, of golden daffodils; Beside the lake, beneath the trees, Fluttering and dancing in the breeze.

27 Nov 08, 9:15 PM
totallycoverme
UK(M), 4 yrs
i;m not interested in younger partners. Ideally, at the age of 20 myself, I am mostly interested in Dominants who are well over the age of 25....ideally somewhere between late 30s and mid 40s is what I seek

I just tend to get on better with people older than myself. I can probably count on one hand the number of close friends I have who are around the same age as myself

This sounds so arrogant but I find that people my own age are still thinking about stuff that doesn't really appeal to me.

Plus I can't see being Dommed by someone like the nerdy fast food teenager guy with the really pubescent voice in The Simpsons lol

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