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| Wed 8 Oct 08, 5:34 PM MrBromley UK(EN), 3 yrs   |
As a domme or sub are you more comfortable (or tend towards) the sub or domme being older than yourself or younger than yourself? Does an 'auntie and nephew' scenario work if 'auntie' is 30 and 'nephew' is 55? If you prefer a younger/older partner for play, are you also more attracted to younger/older partners outside of play? | |||
| 8 Oct 08, 5:47 PM Mistress_Avralivia UK(RG), 4 yrs £ |
Older Dom's younger subs generally, not because im prejudiced, just seems to happen that way! Senno Ekto Gamat | |||
| 8 Oct 08, 8:25 PM Kitty_with_Claws UK, 3 yrs |
No preference whatsoever regarding the age of a sub, I'm much more interested in her/his personality. Hush...keep very still, for the strangest things are about to happen... | |||
| 8 Oct 08, 10:02 PM ByYourCommand UK(RG), 5 yrs |
Always been drawn to older Dom/Dommes. Just feels right. Tends to be less of a problem if my partner hasnt been involved in the D/s side of things. If anything, vanilla relationships i've tended to date younger than me darren x "Well keep you chin up, there's someone out there for everbody...you know in some cases there are two someones for one person; I like to call that 'the jackpot'..." Edited 8 Oct 08, 10:03 PM by ByYourCommand | |||
| 8 Oct 08, 10:08 PM pureheart UK(LS), 4 yrs |
It's the person themselves, how they think and act, not their age that matters to me. I'm happily with Sir now, and there's 4 years between us ... not a big difference at all. I'm not sure though if it makes a difference to my way of thinking that we're living together rather than being play partners. pure x ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ | |||
| 8 Oct 08, 10:11 PM Sirebel UK, 5 yrs    |
I have no real preference. The fact that my partner is significantly younger than me is just because that is the difference in our ages. It doesn't define our relationship. For some reason I can't explain | |||
| 8 Oct 08, 10:12 PM Harrynflicks 4 yrs |
My First Dom was 10yrs younger than me, Sir is 3yrs older - as pure said above its the person themselves and the chemistry that is important. fugger fugger fugger - love with all your heart and you will know both joy and sorrow. | |||
| 8 Oct 08, 10:13 PM tails_SB UK(CB), 6 yrs |
It does tend to go older dom/me - younger sub... I'd hazard a sweeping generalisation and say that this may be to do with the fact that socially we tend to have a bit more respect for those with a bit more worldy experience? ------ | |||
| 8 Oct 08, 10:16 PM Kali_Ma UK(B), 5 yrs |
I prefer young guys... but this isn't a hard and fast rule...I find young guys are more willing to try new stuff ('let me pop my fist in your ass') and are unattached... I'm 38 and 3/4 I joke I like 'em under 25.... *winks* PGK x The Domme formally known as PinkGlitterKitty... | |||
| 8 Oct 08, 10:16 PM Iona_O UK, 5 yrs |
My sub - and as of Friday my fiancé  - Simone is 20 years younger than me. It's never been an issue because I interact with people according to their personalities and not their age. I rarely think about the age gap between us because it is bridged by so many other things - shared interests, same sense of humour, similar intellectual level... oh and love of course  Proud owner of Miss_Simone_I | |||
| 8 Oct 08, 10:23 PM Miss_Simone UK(CB), 5 yrs  |
No matter how many times I see that written or said it makes me so bouncy darling I am so happy.
That is so true sweetie, I find that for me to connect with anyone in a romantic way I have to be able to connect on a psychological plane as well as a physical one. Guess that is my strong sapiosexual side coming to the fore.
Most definitely darling and you know how much I love you and would go to the far reaches of the universe to prove it!! ** HUGS ** you very tight, snuzzles and kisses you, Your loving, adoring, fluffy, cute kitty cat fiancé Simone x x x x x x x =^_^= SIMONE =^o^= Edited 8 Oct 08, 10:24 PM by Miss_Simone |
