Oral sex in a D/s relationship (95)

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Mon 29 Sep 08, 8:18 PM
unleashed79
UK(SK), 5 mths I've been nattering away on here with another sub and the subject of oral sex came up...(No puns!), do subs out there feel uncomfortable recieving oral from a dom/domme or do doms/dommes feel uncomfortable giving oral? I suspect this is all down to personal preferance but I just want to see if there is a general view on the matter. Thank you!
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29 Sep 08, 8:19 PM
Mistress_Susannah
UK(SE), 3 yrs
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Nope!
It ain't what you do but the way that you do it!

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29 Sep 08, 8:20 PM
Bluemax
UK(TW), 4 yrs

Nope! At its very least it is another way to get a girl squirming and whimpering.
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Edited 29 Sep 08, 8:22 PM by Bluemax

29 Sep 08, 8:21 PM
unleashed79
UK(SK), 5 mths
Mistress_Susannah wrote:
Nope!
It ain't what you do but the way that you do it!

That's what gets results! ;-D
The hardest thing, you'll ever learn, is how to love and be loved in return.

29 Sep 08, 8:21 PM
therealwakka
UK(LS), 23 mths

if a sub enjoyed it, I would probably not give it. if they disliked it, I might use it sometimes on them.
i'm happy to do it , i enjoy it.
but nothing beats being given it

29 Sep 08, 8:22 PM
therealwakka
UK(LS), 23 mths

after thought
unless they do it badly, then they will know punishments.....

29 Sep 08, 8:22 PM
Snakehips
UK(SW), 6 yrs
I cannot for the life of me imagine how giving head ever became a 'dominant' or 'submissive' act. I think some just use it as an excuse as the idea freaks them out and they are shit at it.

29 Sep 08, 8:23 PM
awakened
UK(CF), 20 mths

As with many such things, there are/were times when it felt totally comfortable, and equally times when it could be made very un-comfortable.
Don't forget that one of the most powerful tools in the Dominant's arsenal is the ability to subvert feelings and situations, or otherwise use them as part of a grander plan!

29 Sep 08, 8:25 PM
Snowpard
UK(LE), 10 mths
I don't feel uncomfortable recieving oral from my dom, it's one of my favourite forms of stimulation and a real treat when he does it.
I'm not sure what you mean by uncomfortable -- what I think you mean is, do I feel uncomfortable recieving oral because it's like a form of worship, yet I'm the sub?
If so, then I can understand what you mean, but personally I think worship can work both ways. Yes, I'm the sub, but to have a part of my anatomy worshipped is good for the soul and the sex-drive and I have no qualms about it. Not only this, according to him it pleases him, and I make every effort in my 'performance' to show him a good orgasm and have something tasty hehe.
I love his cock and he loves my pussy, it's more of an exchange of love and worship than swapping roles.

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29 Sep 08, 8:27 PM
under_lock_and_KE
UK, 2 yrs

Hell no, i'm more than happy to have a blow job off the Dommely one, as the old saying goes "wrap yer gums around me plums"
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29 Sep 08, 8:27 PM
wonderer
UK, 2 yrs

I remember Daneswood answering interestingly to a previous version of this question ... can't find it at the moment though

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