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Posted by Vicious_Delicious on Sun 28 Sep 08, 9:57 AM

Thats what i got told at 5 am...

My stalker has been at my door again .... asking to get in and saying the same shit as the last time... so again i called the police and again they couldn't or wouldn't do anything!

What the fucking point of having them if they cant do fuck all

I got in from work at 4 am... very late shift and went on P.C had a look and went to my bed and the shortly after my door went.. and like the fool at i am ... i opened it and he was there...

I slammed the door shut as he asked to get in to speak to me ..ran upstairs and called 999 to tell them about him...

By the time they got here he was gone again... so im sat here totally freaked with my doors locked not wanting to go out incase he is there watching like he must have been this morning

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28 Sep 08, 12:49 PM
Telvaren
2 yrs
Heya honey, I hope your ok.
My Dom was wondering if you have applied for a restraining order against him? You can apply to it through the police and then it goes through the courts.
He also wondered if you had spoken to the police before? If you have they are definately not doing their job. I would consider putting in a complaint.
I hope your ok, honey. Don't let them win. Start noting down all the times he has visited/phoned etc. Show this to the police if you can, hopefully that will make you realise that this guy is stalking you.
I would also say perhaps speak to MzLucinda_Doyz on IC, she had some problems with a stalker and might be able to give you more help than we can.
*big hugs*
Tel and D
If there are spelling mistakes I have had too much wine!
Edited 28 Sep 08, 12:51 PM by Telvaren

28 Sep 08, 2:06 PM
Mz_Lucinda_Doys
UK, 3 yrs
£ Y!
If this person is ringing you .. even if they are anonymous calls they can still be traced... get in touch with the nuisance calls beaurau they will trace all calls to your phone mobile or landline..
Callers making anon calls my be suprised to know that all it takes is a single 10 second anon call and you can be traced back to your service provider.
Anon calls are an offence under the telecommunications act.
The NCB can then get in touch with that person themself, get your service provider to do it or you make a formal complaint about your stalker to the police ... make a statement and they take over.
Just ringing the police is not the same as getting in touch and saying you want to make a formal complaint then they have to visit, take statements and act on it.
From my own experience they DO take this type of thing seriously, they do involve victim support, if you have the name of the person you suspect even better they will go and visit him/her.
My own stalker case is ongoing due to it being part of a covert op as the Northants police told me and its now firmly in the hands of Harrow police, next comes prosecution.
I really feel for you as its a very terrible thing to have to go through...it had serious effects on my health that are still ongoing.
Like the person who did it to me.... you will not be his first victim but you can make sure you are his last.
Please feel free to contact me anytime.
Mz_Lucinda_Doys.
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Edited 28 Sep 08, 4:59 PM by Mz_Lucinda_Doys


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