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Another One Bites The Dust.. (7)
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Posted by Ravens_metalmiss on Sat 27 Sep 08, 12:16 AM
she said: i am only allowed to put my cam on for my family and close real life friends
"he" said: I have known yu since yu were 15
she said: perved over me you mean.. we haven't met, i don't consider us to be "friends" *shrugs* the fact remains He wouldn't approve and that's that.
"he" said: What a very shallow view of human depth... I'm sorry that you feel that... after all that we have shared... that hurts me a lot. Take care
she said: But what have we shared? you got me to cum on the phone for you a couple of times, you wanked on cam.. i hardly call that "human depth" or me being particularly shallow.. The truth is it takes much more for me to be stimulated than long distance fantasising.. Because lets be honest, the truth is.. Whenever i have tried to talk about something else you've always turned the topic back to sex.. That's not the basis of a friendship.
BLOCK - DELETE - IGNORE
And then she thought..
When will they ever get the picture? Once upon a time is once upon a time.. Yeah maybe long ago i thought it was a laugh.. This is one girl that's grown a lot in the last 12 months..
Looking for cyber? Wanna talk dirty? ASL?? Is it true that to these people its the only way to get their kicks?
Why is it they can't just take no for an answer? Push me so far that i tell them to fuck off and then try to take the moral high ground.. And they swarm around us in abundance.. Always more and more and more..
Why did i even write a profile if you can't even read the first paragraph? Why speak to anybody if you're not going to respect them for who and what they are? Or even worse claim as though i owe you something and try to guilt trip me just because we used to talk way back when..
Are they really even the same species? Is this what the human race is coming to? Shit the outlook is dull..
Will they ever get the picture? Well.. No.. i doubt it.
~shrugs~ Oh well.. Rant over..
~smiles softly and shuts up~
xx
Replies
27 Sep 08, 2:57 AM
Deviant_Mind
UK(EH), 2 yrs
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You obviously let the guy get to you or you got some kind of ego boost from the exchange otherwise you would not have posted this web log.
So, a guy who you had been talking to on the web for years thought you owed him something?
I put no value on cyber bullshit either - however if I had fucked a girl more than once I am sure she would expect some kind of emotional commitment. Maybe this guy counts this as sex and really liked you?
It's happened to me where the feeling is not mutual and it's nothing to post a web log about.
Get over yourself. You're fucking a middle aged guy, and let's face it, at you're age that's not hard to achieve, despite its benefits. "I don't know what your destiny will be, but one thing I do know: the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who have sought and found how to serve." - Albert Schweitzer.
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27 Sep 08, 9:31 AM
goodghirl
UK(G), 5 yrs
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Deviant_Mind wrote:
You obviously let the guy get to you or you got some kind of ego boost from the exchange otherwise you would not have posted this web log.
So, a guy who you had been talking to on the web for years thought you owed him something?
I put no value on cyber bullshit either - however if I had fucked a girl more than once I am sure she would expect some kind of emotional commitment. Maybe this guy counts this as sex and really liked you?
It's happened to me where the feeling is not mutual and it's nothing to post a web log about.
Get over yourself. You're fucking a middle aged guy, and let's face it, at you're age that's not hard to achieve, despite its benefits.
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Ummm shes a girl?
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27 Sep 08, 11:16 AM
Masters_Delight
UK(WD), 20 mths
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I think, and this is only a guess mind, that they maybe meant that she is fucking a middle aged man, as in doing the deed with one not that she actually is one. I think. :/ *holds hands up a little bit confused*
Dont drink water, fish have sex in it.x
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27 Sep 08, 12:04 PM
Ravens_metalmiss
UK(CR), 5 yrs
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Firstly.. it's my blog, my own little corner of IC and i'll say whatever the hell i like.. If i'd been looking for random, negative input from some random person i don't know, that's what the boards are for.. i would have posted a thread on the subject. It's a blog, if you don't have anything constructive to say.. Don't say anything at all.
That said you appear to think you're some kind of authority on what other people who you don't even know the slightest thing about should or shouldn't post in their blogs.. Seems to me that you're the one who needs to get over himself.
Then this brings me to my final ponderance.. The age of my partner? Not difficult? Benefits? i fail to see what that has to do with anything.. Methinks you need to take the chip off your shoulder and grow up. "I would never harm you darling, but there is a world of difference between hurt and harm." - Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns
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27 Sep 08, 12:35 PM
Swiss_Toni
UK(S), 10 mths
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I can tell you that, sub or not, if any of my Mistress's ex-playmates, online contacts or whatever, started doing that to her, then I'd hunt them down, and dish out the mother of all kickings. Maybe then they'd get the message. It's not the side-effects of the cocaine... I'm thinking that it must be love - The Thin White Duke
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27 Sep 08, 8:10 PM
Deviant_Mind
UK(EH), 2 yrs
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Ravens_metalmiss wrote:
Firstly.. it's my blog, my own little corner of IC and i'll say whatever the hell i like.. If i'd been looking for random, negative input from some random person i don't know, that's what the boards are for.. i would have posted a thread on the subject. It's a blog, if you don't have anything constructive to say.. Don't say anything at all.
That said you appear to think you're some kind of authority on what other people who you don't even know the slightest thing about should or shouldn't post in their blogs.. Seems to me that you're the one who needs to get over himself.
Then this brings me to my final ponderance.. The age of my partner? Not difficult? Benefits? i fail to see what that has to do with anything.. Methinks you need to take the chip off your shoulder and grow up.
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Yes, it's your blog, which is y'know, open to public comment. Those were my comments. I found the blog egotistical, insulting and it said rather a lot about you. I mean, it's your blog, why shouldn't it?
As for my comments, if everyone took the notion that if they don't have anything constructive to say they shouldn't say it at all - did you grow up in the 50's?
I'm sorry I couldn't add something you perceive as constructive, but hey, it's not a very constructive blog now is it? It's essentially you knocking back a guy you have been stringing along for a few years.
You have obviously been stringing this guy along, otherwise he wouldn't have the expectations he had. It has taken you five years to tell him that you're not interested in anything with him it shows your motivations for continuing the reuse that he might have had a chance. It shows that you were happy to string the guy along for 5 bloody years to make sure he was there for whatever emotional and sexual support *you* wanted when you wanted it. The second he asked you to return the favour, you publically insult him and humiliate him.
So yeah, I have nothing constructive to say about your blog, but hey, it's not exactly a wonderfully positive blog.
I have no vested personal interest in this I know none of the people involved, your blog just rubbed me up the wrong way.
Take my comments for what they are, some random guys opinion on your blog. If you didn't want to hear others thoughts you shouldn't have left comments open. "I don't know what your destiny will be, but one thing I do know: the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who have sought and found how to serve." - Albert Schweitzer.
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28 Sep 08, 4:35 PM
Ravens_metalmiss
UK(CR), 5 yrs
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It is MY blog for MY opinions, no-one holds a gun to your head and forces you to read, if you don't like it, don't read it.
If you want a free-for-all where everyone is on an equal footing then stick to the forums. Blogs however are individual to the poster. If you don't like it.. jog on!
Egotism and insult.. pot, kettle, black.
There is so much wrong with your post it is hard to know where to start..
Firstly, your motivation.... Most of your original post was sort-of aimed at the blog, the final part though bore no relevance to ANYTHING it contained in the slightest.. Therefore it can only be coming from one place.. your personal agenda, bias and.. oh.. the chip on your shoulder... Rather an indication for your motivation on picking my blog on which to vent your pissy childish attitude.
You clearly showed your negative bias toward the fact that i have a much older Master and this isn't the first time someone on these boards has remarked on your resentment of older people and not all of it was to do with your having been the organiser of an U35 munch, it is personal to you?
Do you feel threatened by the fact that some of us look to the maturity and stability that you clearly lack at your age? (Note this is personal to YOU, not a generalised swipe at ALL younger males, though in general I have found far more likelihood of what I seek from someone older).
As for your focus, on the sex.... ever heard of a dynamic? How about compatibility? Those are vital to a successful relationship, much more than the sex.... though maturity and experience counts for plenty there too.
Now to this latest diatribe... Leading on? Now where have i seen that attitude before? From those types of neanderthals who accuse rape victims of 'asking for it'.
A bit of immature random cam and phone banter many years ago does not 'stringing along' make. It certainly doesn't excuse that kind of approach nor the kind of guilt trip that was tried.
You make a lot of assumptions in your speculation as to my motivation, all of them misguided and coloured by your OWN personal insecurities and preferences. In looking at YOUR motivations all I have done is look at what has been observable on these boards both here and in past threads.
I will however extrapolate.. That you where in a pissy mood, wanted to throw your teddy out of the pram and chose my blog to do so SOLELY because of your prejudice against age gap relationships, something you resent and lack understanding of... much like you lack understanding of D/s, social skills and women!
Such crap coming from you and those of your ilk are one reason why some girls are too intimidated to actually post.. Any sign of confidence draws the attentions of a petulant troll eventually. Crawl back under your bridge little baby troll, this is one girl you can't and won't intimidate. "I would never harm you darling, but there is a world of difference between hurt and harm." - Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns
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