Posted by xXPokerFaceXx
on Mon 22 Sep 08, 12:51 PM to xXPokerFaceXx's blog.
I have decided to leave ic. Based on the fact that some people on here cant accept the fact that i'm not good with my grammer or spelling. It might sound silly but i left the bullys behind in school and didn't think i would meet anyone like that again! But i'm afraid to say i have!
Don't get me wrong some of you are very nice to talk to but for the others U need to get a grip. Stop trying to perfect.
Not everyone is perfect, Big deal if i cant fuckn spell or don't have good grammer. I just don't want people posting shit.
I cant see fuck all wrong with my profile, I may be forward and say how i feel or how it is but i am not a nasty person!
I came on ic to make new friends and learn more about bdsm, but i can asure u all i wont recommend this site to any of my friends.
Goodbye
| 22 Sep 08, 1:10 PM JudyInDsGuise UK(E), 9 yrs |
Nothing to do with grammar or spelling, but if you want the right to be yourself you can't really deny other people the same right! It's all well and good to bang a drum and say "I'm me, like it or lump it"...as long as you realise some *will* lump it. judy
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| 22 Sep 08, 1:20 PM MsWhisper 8 yrs |
Why let some petty minded people push you from this site, just take no notice of them. everyone gets some kind of abuse here, they're not worth worrying about hun.
"So close no matter how far, couldn't be much more from the heart, forever trusting who we are, and nothing else matters" | |
| 22 Sep 08, 1:20 PM T5Tart  UK(MK), 5 yrs   |
now now deep breath
there is nothing wrong with what you have just written
and who cares anyway
I tongue in cheek pull people up on it mainly subs I KNOW but truth be told I am a crap secretary and dyslexic so i just type and garbage comes out if people want to be sad enuff to pull me up on it let them won't change who I am and how I type. why let the B*$tards win and grind you down ? you are giving them what the want by leaving stand proud and strong of who you are sod the grammar Nazis they aint worth it
oh and P.S. its grammar not grammer "One day you'll ask me whats more important to me.. "me or your life?" I will reply my life. Then you'll walk away not knowing that you are my life..." | |
| 22 Sep 08, 1:22 PM GoddessRose UK(EN), 6 yrs |
I am sorry to see another person leave because of the cliques that are on here. It seems a shame, thats why I dont get involved with the site. I have my friends and thats it. Is anyone perfect, I think not! Good luck. Goddess. | |
| 22 Sep 08, 2:43 PM x_Thunder_x UK(E), 9 yrs    |
Don't let the buggers get you down. Yes there are a few on IC who delight in putting others down, egged on often by their mates, but just ignore the prats ^Thunder^ | |
| 22 Sep 08, 2:52 PM Prunesquallor UK(RG), 7 yrs |
Interesting that you did not unhide my response, which was completely friendly. I think if you are so sensitive that you see support as criticism, then it is probably wise that you do leave, purely because I think staying will cause you too much pain. I genuinely hope that later on, when you are more at ease with yourself, you will return and enjoy yourself on here. Best wishes, Prune Edited 22 Sep 08, 2:53 PM by Prunesquallor | |
| 22 Sep 08, 2:56 PM Backdooruk UK(BA), 12 yrs |
Some people automatically are hard on other people rather than easy on them. I doubt IC is any worse for this than anyware else. Often it turns out that you are simply the dog that got kicked because of issues unconnected with what you post. - Chris Anyone with a brain is manipulable. Only the truly unimaginative are difficult to control. | |
| 22 Sep 08, 3:03 PM just_the_two_of_us 5 yrs |
I am crap with grammer and I got a few people on my hit list, and you know what? It dont matter one bit, because if people are that narrow minded to go on about spelling, grammer and such like, they must have well boring lifestyles, if this is all they have to worry about! And cant find anything better to do than nit pick over something as daft as that.
I say stay dont let the little people who think they know it all win, stay be you and be honest, no one can moan at that can they.
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| 22 Sep 08, 3:34 PM polly_uk UK, 7 yrs |
Don't be so daft (in the nicest possible way). Who the hell cares if your spelling is crap. I know teachers whose spelling is truly awful. Your ability, or lack of it regarding spelling, has no bearing on your niceness or nastiness ! Please do not tar us all with the same brush. It is the message that is of value not the way it is written. Best wishes, Polly x "Indifference to me, is the epitome of evil. Be a sound not an echo" | |
| 22 Sep 08, 4:15 PM FetishJess UK(BN), 5 yrs |
It takes a while to be accepted on this site and lots of people say there aren't cliques on here but there is and it's a shame. There isn't much that can be done about it other than people that aren't cliquey still being about and posting regardless.
I left for a bit and came back, twice in fact now. Maybe you could try that. Good luck for the future. www.fetiqueuk.com www.brightonfab.com http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AhKU-tmSQR8 |
