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| Tue 16 Sep 08, 1:45 PM Tokyoscorpio 6 yrs  |
Having made several trips to Japan, and having met many rather interesting japanese aquaintances over the years, Im "Missing" the culture these days.....
Are there any japanese nationals on ic? Anyone with fascinations around any aspect of japanese culture........ food / rope of course / more food (Im male!!) gothic lolitas and musicians in yoyogi park....... Talk to me!! | |
| 16 Sep 08, 3:37 PM Belasarius UK(M), 8 yrs       |
I know nothing about Japan. But, I was fascinated by the possible uses of a system of honorifics similar to that used in Japan, within a D/s context. Here's the link: http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/boards/ukds/146... Oh - and here: http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/boards/ukds/149... Best to all. Rules is rules... | |
| 16 Sep 08, 3:48 PM Catattak UK, 11 yrs |
Hi,
I can totally understand - I spent 1+1/2 years in Japan around Matsuyama and Hiroshima. I have days when I miss the atmosphere, the food and restaurants and my friends,... Cat | |
| 16 Sep 08, 4:01 PM RopeTopUK UK(N), 3 yrs |
Having practiced karate, aikido and recently a little judo, I suppose I have more than a passing interest in the culture. I haven't got into shibari yet, though I definitely intend to, just to gain the experience. The traditional/feudal ethos is of course VERY much in keeping with the Dom/sub dynamic. The tradition of the uchi deshi - martial arts apprentice/servant - is particularly resonant (and not as strictly heterosexual as some people might believe!) The general attitude of respect for authority, a respect that is earned through experience and self-discipline, is a very attractive concept that Western culture could do with a big dose of. I personally feel very honoured to be in the presence of, say, a 7th-Dan instructor, and I feel very happy to show this respect by addressing him or her as Sensei. If anyone is interested in the history of sex in Japanese culture, I heartily recommend the book "Pink Samurai" by Nicholas Bornoff. | |
| 16 Sep 08, 4:03 PM Backdooruk UK(BA), 12 yrs |
Seconded. I was lucky enough to pick it up remaindered by accident many years ago. Very recommended. - Chris
Anyone with a brain is manipulable. Only the truly unimaginative are difficult to control. | |
| 16 Sep 08, 4:11 PM Elucie FR, 7 yrs |
What with Shibari (traditional japanese bondage) and Hokusai's famous erotic art (Shunga) Japan is one of the few cultures to bring respect and class to bdsm. My own Tied Up and Tranny series are influenced by the Japanese arts. Tranny drawings: http://www.art-tied-up.com/transvestitedraw.htm Tranny colour prints: http://www.art-tied-up.com/transvestitecol.htm Tied Up drawings: http://www.art-tied-up.com/tiedupdrawing.htm Tied Up colour prints: http://www.art-tied-up.com/tiedupcolprint.htm Here're a couple of sites on Shunga: http://www.mastergraph.com/pages/ghgl.html http://www.akantiek.nl/shun2.htm
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| 16 Sep 08, 4:59 PM Tokyoscorpio 6 yrs |
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| 16 Sep 08, 5:00 PM Tokyoscorpio 6 yrs |
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| 16 Sep 08, 5:02 PM Tokyoscorpio 6 yrs |
The general attitude of respect for authority, a respect that is earned through experience and self-discipline, is a very attractive concept that Western culture could do with a big dose of. I personally feel very honoured to be in the presence of, say, a 7th-Dan instructor, and I feel very happy to show this respect by addressing him or her as Sensei. when i have time, and including your mention of martial arts, think me and you could have an interesting exchange on this subject...... scorpio | |
| 16 Sep 08, 6:26 PM scarlett101 UK, 7 yrs |
i have never been, but my interest is immense. i collect japanese kimonos and their related regalia, and the proud owner of an exquisit dancers kimono
Someone very dear to me, has enlightened me on the japanese music scene.. leading to my discovery of the japanese gothic/fetish scene ( part of which is coming to the UK hopefully, later this year) Please see my profile for music details
The japanese gothic lolita and other related fashions interest me to, wouldnt say i could dress like it, but do possess a gothic lolita outfit
i am also a fan of japanese cuisine, and lucky enough to have a cafe or two in Birmingham, catering to the japanese taste
Please feel free to add to myspace, There's heaps load more of japan related stuff in my friends list fi XX
www.adixxtion-designs.co.uk | |
| 16 Sep 08, 6:44 PM RopeTopUK UK(N), 3 yrs |
The more I think about it, the more appropriate these cultural attributes are to BDSM. The original samurai ethic is all about serving/protecting the public, and the code (budo) enshrines the concept of using martial skill to control/prevent violence. Aikido philosophy is the modern ancestor of this tradition, the art of non-violent self-defence. The spirituality of this speaks to me very profoundly. I can see clear parallels with D/s relationships, and I think the samurai is an excellent role model for Dominants - strong, resourceful, determined and yet also sensitive, thoughtful and above all protective. That's what drew me to martial arts in the first place, my strong protective instincts. I'm now enjoying the flipside of it, the nurturing domination of those who place themselves under my training, in my care, my beneficial autocracy. |
