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Posted by Katalena on Mon 15 Sep 08, 5:38 PM
Part 5 –Confidence and self-esteem
This will likely be a fairly short post because I have fairly good confidence and self esteem. I have heard people say that people who are overweight have low self confidence and self esteem well, I don't. Don't get me wrong, I have had my moments but don't we all?
It is like those people (whoever they may be) that say fat people are not happy people – well I don't agree with that either.
I am a happy person, I have a wonderful family and partner (and get on well with all his family), I have a good job that yes, I do work bloody hard in but I love that pressure and love what I do. I have great work colleagues who are also my friends (only 5 females in my Centre) as well as a good circle of friends both nilla and kink. I don't have to hide my kink side, as much as I don't plaster it on street signs but I can be honest and open about who I am with my family and friends.
I am not as happy as I know I will be with my figure but that is a step by step process that if I want to achieve, I will have to accept it will take some time but equally I do not hide indoors, not wanting to go out because I am not slim.
I am 5 ft 10, broad shoulders, 34” legs, all in proportion and a size 18/20 although more on the 20 side at the moment. I would like to lose weight and tone at the same time.
So, what steps have I taken to start making that difference?
To be continued
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