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Townhouse on Thursday (28)

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19 Sep 08, 5:26 PM
LacednLicked
UK(WA), 4 yrs
Alan_BStard wrote:
By far the easiest thing for me would be to ignore all of this, as it's not my battle, and I hate scene politics, but I believe that The_Pervert, Top_Totty, and now Townhouse are being treated very unfairly. I don't take any of this lightly either, and I'm nervous about getting involved myself for fear I'll get blacklisted too, but I feel an injustice is being done. I can't help wondering if others have held back from posting for fear of retribution from Admin.

I stand by what I wrote. I despise outers, and would be over the moon to see the return of Nemesis, especially a little closer to home. I just don't think that The_Pervert or anyone connected to him had anything to do with any outing.

LadyPandoraCP wrote:
The pervert and toptotty see themselves taking over the scene with Townhouse and their "fun house" as their headquarters. They viewed Nemesis as their biggest competitor (arrogant and stupid as they would never be in the same league).

I'm struggling to understand how you can even believe this yourself.

LadyPandoraCP wrote:
Please don't turn this into another playground argument about who is telling the truth; it's not fair on the other users of these boards.

You seem to be saying that you can make the allegations and insults you have made, but it's "not fair on the other users of these boards" for me or anyone else to defend them. I can't be the only person that thinks that's wrong.

For what it's worth:

  • I'm not a sockpuppet.
  • No-one has asked me to write any of this or "act against" you in any way.
  • I've never been to the "fun house", though I was invited once. As far as I'm aware, it's not a commercial venue. I didn't even know it existed until relatively recently.

Hmm I too hummed and Hahhed over responding to this thread. Originally I didn't in the hope it would die a death again but as it hasn't... I agree with Alan Bstard on all his points. The funhouse is not a commercial venture and as far as I can tell having a few people over to play is not taking over the scene!

I find it interesting that Lady Pandora makes a comment regarding length on the scene. Does time on the scene mean anything? I have only been out on the scene since end of last year but thats because prior to that I wasn't "out" about my lifestyle. I have been playing actively since I was 17 and Pro Dommed some 9 years ago. I didn't realise I wasn't a proper Domme until I hit the scene though!

Townhouse is one of my favourite places to play because its a damn good club, clean and well equipped. The people who own it and those who are actively involved in the running of the Radical Desire night put in a lot of time and effort to make it successful and it certainly is. It seems unfair that because of some squable with the DM the entire club is being brought down.

And Admin I have to ponder why the sudden muck-raking when the issue has surely been buried for some time now?

19 Sep 08, 5:29 PM
LacednLicked
UK(WA), 4 yrs
Admin wrote:
Alan_BStard wrote:
I've read the accusations, and I still don't believe for one second that the_pervert or anyone close to him would report Lady Pandora to any authorities. I honestly think that both you and Lady P are mistaken.

We know for a fact that the_pervert threatened to make a malicious complaint about IC to a government regulator (the ICO) if we didn't remove a publicly visible post about his sock puppetry.

This is a clear case of "Do X, or else I'll do Y to you."

Regards,

Admin

Surely such an accusation only stands up if the ICO can actually find anything of concern? Otherwise the response would simply be "yeah go on then, its no bother to us"?

Although its not quite the reason for saying they would go to the ICO that I heard (something to do with the DPA I recall?)

19 Sep 08, 6:40 PM
DarthFetish
UK, 5 yrs

LacednLicked wrote:
Townhouse is one of my favourite places to play because its a damn good club, clean and well equipped. The people who own it and those who are actively involved in the running of the Radical Desire night put in a lot of time and effort to make it successful and it certainly is.

I agree, I've been to THI a few times and it's a very good club, well maintained and the people running it are lovely.

I don't know any of the people involved in this spat and I'm not interested in getting involved with any scene politics. I think it unfair that a pertinent thread discussing the Radical Desires night should be highjacked in this manner - keep things on topic please.

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19 Sep 08, 6:55 PM
LadyPandoraCP
UK(M), 6 yrs
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As neither Alan Bstard or Laced n Licked have ever spoken to me, then their opinions stated on this thread are precisely that ... opinions. No facts, just words.

I stand by what I have said as I can prove it - and am proving it to people who need to know in order to bring this matter to a satisfactory legal conclusion.

As for this matter having gone away, perhaps the pervy family believe it has. However, again, that is only one side.

My request for this not to turn into a playground argument was purely because when people who don't have possession of facts start to stick their two penn'orth in they muddy the waters and run the risk of exposing themselves as being ignorant - as they certainly are with regard to the facts.

I notice that neither bothered to reply to the questions posed by Admin, even though they were both at THI last night and therefore able to. Shame the thread has been hijacked.

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19 Sep 08, 7:22 PM
CPeccavi
4 yrs
I've said plenty about what I think already and can't be bothered repeating myself, particularly when my reply could be pulled. Town House needs no defence and the place was packed last night. I think Tanos made a point about a club being lost to the community and I'm puzzled therefore about this thread. Still, at least I can stick my tongue out at LacedandLicked cos I've been on the scene for more than a year. If anyone knows when she'll be back from her hols do give me the nod - I'll be in hiding. I genuinely wish everyone well.

The most powerful weapon on earth is the human soul on fire. ~Ferdinand Foch

19 Sep 08, 7:27 PM
Mr_Foo
UK(L), 4 yrs

CPeccavi wrote:
If anyone knows when she'll be back from her hols do give me the nod - I'll be in hiding. I genuinely wish everyone well.
She came back yesterday.

Recent blog stuff... 2nd Sep 08 - Oh my..
27 Aug 08 New developments...

19 Sep 08, 7:35 PM
CPeccavi
4 yrs
Mr_Foo wrote:
CPeccavi wrote:
If anyone knows when she'll be back from her hols do give me the nod - I'll be in hiding. I genuinely wish everyone well.
She came back yesterday.

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The most powerful weapon on earth is the human soul on fire. ~Ferdinand Foch

19 Sep 08, 9:34 PM
Alan_BStard
7 yrs
LadyPandoraCP wrote:
As neither Alan Bstard or Laced n Licked have ever spoken to me, then their opinions stated on this thread are precisely that ... opinions. No facts, just words.

I stand by what I have said as I can prove it - and am proving it to people who need to know in order to bring this matter to a satisfactory legal conclusion.

As for this matter having gone away, perhaps the pervy family believe it has. However, again, that is only one side.

My request for this not to turn into a playground argument was purely because when people who don't have possession of facts start to stick their two penn'orth in they muddy the waters and run the risk of exposing themselves as being ignorant - as they certainly are with regard to the facts.

I notice that neither bothered to reply to the questions posed by Admin, even though they were both at THI last night and therefore able to. Shame the thread has been hijacked.

We have actually spoken a few times, though not recently, and not about this issue. I've read several posts you've made though, and I know the people being accused, and I genuinely believe that you are mistaken.

I don't think anyone thinks this issue has gone away yet, though I expect many people are hoping it will.

Why is it though that you are allowed to post whatever allegations, insults, and veiled threats you want, but I and others get attacked for replying? If this is being dealt with by lawyers, then why are you and Admin even posting about it? If you're allowed to post about it, then why is any reply that you don't like someone's "ignorant" "two penn'orth", just "muddying the waters"? Other people's profiles have been blocked, yet you can still say whatever you want about people that cannot defend themselves on this forum.

This thread started off as a standard club event thread. If it was "hijacked" by anybody, then it was by Admin asking questions that I frankly find disturbing, and do not intend to answer. I was away when this all blew up on the web boards, and decided not to re-open the can of worms when I found out about it, though I would certainly have posted earlier otherwise. If someone wants to start a new thread about this, I'll post any replies there instead.

I will memo you and Admin with my telephone number if you want to talk privately. I was going to do that before, but wanted to wait till I'd got something else sorted out.

[edited to add the word "why", which appears in bold]

Edited 20 Sep 08, 1:46 AM by Alan_BStard

19 Sep 08, 11:48 PM
LacednLicked
UK(WA), 4 yrs
Just to clarify..I wasn't at THI last night as I didn't get back from my hols till gone midnight. Its too late and I am far to blissed out from some wonderful play to bother with the rest of that response right now.
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