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on Sat 30 Aug 08, 11:35 AM to rachel1's blog.
I am a man who wants to be able to submit to a dominant lady's demands but cant do it 24/7 as i am married to a lady who isn't in the slightest bit interested in dominating, just the opposite really. i know i could pay to visit a proffssional Mistress but having to spend lots on the house for the ill partner money isn't exactly available for such pleasures. Any people i have talked to on-line in sites like this always run a mile when they know I am married. Does it mean I have to be dishonest and lie about my marrital status to gain any contacts. I do hope not as I believe the whole BDSM lifestyle is built on trust. I would welcome any suggestions and if anyone around Edinburgh is interested in giving me some training please contact me.
| 30 Aug 08, 11:50 AM Kali_Ma UK(B), 5 yrs |
The deal breaker probably isn't so much that you are married, but if your wife knows you are looking to 'play away from home'. I'm married, my husband knows all except the down and dirty details of what I do. I'm open about that, and have never had a problem in the community. So, does your wife know what you are planning to do? Is she okay with that? PGK The Domme formally known as PinkGlitterKitty... | |
| 30 Aug 08, 12:11 PM firemynx_B UK(B), 11 yrs |
I'd pretty much agree really. I think it comes down to "if he can do that to her, then he can also do it to me" type feelings. And I'm not sure you can quote "trust" if you are breaking the trust of someone, and yet expect someone else to trust you, just not sure life works like that. I think we would all like to believe we are fairly open minded, and in the main, that happens to be true, but we are human and there are going to be things that either are deal breakers, moral personal issues, or just distasteful.
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