girls, boys and age play (37)

It became more than obvious to me that I've never ever been a girl when me and my partner started doing ageplay together. Before that I had no problems whatsoever being a rubberslut, whore, ragdoll, whatever, cause that I can relate to. It's a part of me, and calling me that is giving me so much power, even if I'm submitting. BUT calling him Daddy, and having me being called "girl" did not work. During that session I had to constantly tie the girlthing together with the slut, the whore, just to be able to keep it up. It did not come to me, who that role was supposed to be, and it boiled down to my gender IDissues that made us change direction. Now I am his little boi and gawd! It's so hot I get all jittery while thinking about it.

Got a bit confused when I came to England and people I did not know called me "darling" "girl" and so on. Had to bite my tongue several times before I understood that it's a way of talking and adressing. Now I know when I need to put my foot down, and when not.. Am quite a big fan of genderneutral pronuns and use it a lot in my native tongue, find it a bit trickier go get used to "ze" in english. Also what's awesome is that I found my "title" and it got so clear to me who'm I am when top. It's "sir" and nothing else. What are other peoples experiences when finding "that"?

Saw a really hot video, ageplay with a really old man and a girl in i uniform. She looked almost like..well. Not legal. She topped him from the beginning and everytime it looked like a switch was going to happen she nailed him to the floor. Yum. Think those are the hottest things,unexpected, that fucks whith those things that we think we know something about. Our perceptions about gender can often be so rigid that it only takes language to mess around with it. Yum yum.

You can call me whatever you like, especially if it's dirty, because your accent is just soooo hot

Although of course i don't do age-play, ever. No no really. You ask Freud

ETA: I don't have any problem with being called a boy - i think it shows a little endearment, so it's kinda nice.

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Edited 24 Aug 08, 3:17 PM by HisHoliness

mwahaha du kleiner Mistbraten

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Sinmara wrote: mwahaha du kleiner Mistbraten

I do not masturbate!! (Well ok, except when i'm on IC and perving - or when Ingrid tells me to).

Oh hang on. Translate tells me it means "you small dung roast". Doubtless some sort of Bavarian greeting.

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Edited 24 Aug 08, 5:17 PM by HisHoliness

SuperWhore wrote: Sinmara wrote: mwahaha du kleiner Mistbraten I do not masturbate!! (Well ok, except when i'm on IC and perving - or when Ingrid tells me to). Oh hang on. Translate tells me it means "you small dung roast". Doubtless some sort of Bavarian greeting.

PMSL at this. Pity me.

SuperWhore wrote: Sinmara wrote: mwahaha du kleiner Mistbraten I do not masturbate!! (Well ok, except when i'm on IC and perving - or when Ingrid tells me to). Oh hang on. Translate tells me it means "you small dung roast". Doubtless some sort of Bavarian greeting.

PMSL

It's just a term for brat *G*

I'm Austrian, AUSTRIAN, not Bavarian - that's an insult to Austrians!

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Sinmara wrote: I'm Austrian, AUSTRIAN, not Bavarian - that's an insult to Austrians!

Not to be pedantic (but just because i'm old and know this shit), but i rather suspect that depends on how far back you take your history and .:. whether you're for or against old Charlemagne.

But yes, my tongue was def in cheek - of course i know you're Australian ... erm ... i mean Austrian (they're the same right)?

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Edited 24 Aug 08, 9:44 PM by HisHoliness

I have a managerial type job but don't really see that it puts me down as a person to call myself 'girl' instead of 'female' or 'woman'

I am comfortable enough with who I am, in and out of work to not really view it as anti-feminist, and I prefer it to 'Duck' 'Hen' and other regional variations lol

As an aside, at work I am referred to as 'dear' alot, again I don't see it as a lack of respect for my being a woman, but a cultural thing from the people who call me it.

Of course, in D/s all kinds of names fit so well.....

An ex used to call me 'girl' with the most erotic accent, it really made me melt on the spot *blush*

Edited 25 Aug 08, 12:01 AM by silaster

i second that!

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