| 22 Aug 08, 8:57 AM misstressclare UK(TA), 4 yrs £   |
Finding the magic that works is not easy but can be found
We make mistakes along the way and at times redefine what we thought we wanted But now and then it works keep looking its worth it x I will still look, even if finding lots of frogs along the way. | |
| 22 Aug 08, 9:44 AM just_the_two_of_us 5 yrs |
I love being in love, I even love the vanilla aspects it brings along with it. It's a wonderful feeling, when he is not around I get on with things, but there is something missing until he gets home again, he says the same. I love the ability to be relaxed the feeling of finding home the feeling of calmness that this word love brings.
It's wonderful for me anyway, and the old saying 'if I can find it, anyone can' but it took a lot of work, a lot of planning, and a lot of talking, because I did not want it to be all Master/slave stuff, I wanted the lot, bd/sm and vanilla all mixed up. I got there in the end, [and he knows how lucky he is 'cos I keep telling him | |
| 22 Aug 08, 9:47 AM SimplySal 6 yrs |
" Who needs a heart when a heart can be broken?" "....the past is another country; they do things differently there..." | |
| 22 Aug 08, 6:05 PM just_tope 6 yrs |
You're one of my favourite people in the world and the only one who can irritate me to distraction lol. You will find what you need babe, hopefully we both will. Find the gel of interests, outlooks, personalities and kinks is a hard thing to find but it is out there. Anyway. I still love you you big lummox xxx YKIOK, but I reserve the right to chastise you telephathically. | |
| 22 Aug 08, 6:21 PM CrystalTipps UK(SS), 6 yrs |
Love is something I've thought I've had and realised afterwards that it wasn't...it's a bugger when that happens! I was talking about this with a friend the other day. The gist of the conversation is that 'making love' often refers to sex but in reality, it takes a lifetime to make 'love'. You make your love for someone matter each day in a smile, a glance, a touch of the hand - all the small things that get taken for granted but if not done, are missed. I admire those that have truly been in love and those who are still in love, because it takes a lot of hard work and understanding. Maybe one day that'll be me - you never know I guess! x "If God had wanted me to bend over, he would have put diamonds on the floor..." | |
| 22 Aug 08, 8:10 PM beatabeatrix UK(CV), 5 yrs |
Love is passion, obsession, someone you can't live without. If you don't start with that, what are you going to end up with? Fall head over heels. I say find someone you can love like crazy and who'll love you the same way back. And how do you findq him? Forget your head and listen to your heart. I'm not hearing any heart. Run the risk, if you get hurt, you'll come back. Because, the truth is there is no sense living your life without this. To make the journey and not fall deeply in love - well, you haven't lived a life at all. You have to try. Because if you haven't tried, you haven't lived". Love is all about letting go and running risks which is very hard to do of you have run the gauntlet of divorce - in my case twice! I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve and fall very easily for men who show me any kindness or attention! * that is not an advert for all and sundry to contact me* My experience of "love" has resulted in 2 marriages, 2 children, 2 divorces and 2 breakdowns. The purest love has got to be that of a child for it's parent/s. My son tells me that he loves me to the end of the numbers! If a man told me that I would think he was taking the piss!!! Shakespeare wrote that love is the worst of nightmares - and at times I tend to agree with the bard. U2 sang " I still haven't found what I am looking for" - I am still searching. Finally Ms Armatrading sang " I am not in love, but I'm open to persuasion" Leave yourself open Luci.......... Amoris vulnus idem sanat, qui facit. | |
| 22 Aug 08, 9:22 PM Mesmeric UK, 4 yrs |
"More than words can wield the matter", Shakespeare, King Lear. Cordelia on her love for her father. Just seven devastating words.... | |
| 9 Sep 08, 7:34 PM Sluttish UK(E), 6 yrs |
I can't remember what it's like to be in love, or maybe I don't recognise when I am. BTW, do tell why you have signed yourself of as 'donkey'..
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| 27 Sep 08, 6:39 PM Mistress_Avralivia UK(RG), 4 yrs £ |
I disagree to a certain extent with what most people have said about love here im afraid. I have thought ive been in love about 5 times, looking back I think I have only truly loved two men completely. The first time it was perfect for two and a half years and then was killed by my other half turning into a full on bastard due to alcaholism and refusing to admit he had a serious problem he needed help with. The second time is with my current partner, and it wasnt like a thunderbolt, or about kissing at bus stops or any of that rubbish. There is passion and love and I miss him like crazy when hes not with me. But what it really is about is a love that builds and gets stronger and stronger. A love that makes me feel that with him im twice the person I am without him, he (as was mentioned) feels pride when I do well, encourages me in all that I do, is never selfish in his love, and makes my world a better place. I hope (and think i do) do all of that for him too. But I do agree its not always easy to find someone who fits with you on every level, and theres no guarantee that one of us wont change and grow apart, all I can say is its about caring, and respect, and making it work. (anyway enough of this slush :P ) Senno Ekto Gamat |
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