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| Mon 4 Aug 08, 10:45 AM heatbeat UK, 4 yrs |
Hey guys, I am a student at Bournemouth University, and whilst I have little experience in encounters with a mistress, I have been desiring this for so long. But the only thing is, the lowest tribute cost mistress in Bournemouth is £120. per hour, and I just can't afford this. She does 15 minute sessions for £50 but I don't think that is long enough.. Has anoyne got any suggestions? Is it on par with etiquette to barter them down, as I don't want to come across like an arse.. Or are there cheaper ways of having sessions? Many thanks guys | |
| 4 Aug 08, 11:16 AM MinnieMinx UK(DE), 4 yrs   |
Why not have a chat with some of the club organisers in your area. Some clubs have resident Doms/Dommes who will happily beat you  . Also, you do get singles going too, hoping to find a playmate. Sometimes you might get to play, sometimes not, but it's worth a try.
Also, take a look at IC's personal ads. Good luck | |
| 4 Aug 08, 4:27 PM Lady_Anna_Bradford UK(BD), 5 yrs   |
If you barter you will come across as an arse. We're not market traders selling a bit of hooky clothing. Either try the clubs were you may get the chance to play with a Domme, or save up - plenty do. "If no sexual offence is being committed it seems very odd indeed that there should be an offence for having an image of something which was not an offence," Lord Wallace of Tankerness | |
| 4 Aug 08, 5:04 PM Mistress_Susannah UK(SE), 7 yrs £ |
Lady Anna is right. If you just want a session, no strings attached and you want to see a professional then you have to pay the going rate. If you're looking for something in a more "lifestyle" sense then you have to make much more of an effort - and it's unlikely that you'll just be able to turn up to someone for a free session and not be expected to form some sort of relationship. Go to clubs, go to munches, fill out your sparse profile, post on the boards more. I know people who have been looking for a Domme for years with still no success. | |
| 4 Aug 08, 5:17 PM subwill UK(SN), 10 yrs |
Sounds like me! Like the ladies said, save up. Wont take too long to save up £120. Just buy a few less Bacardi breezers in the student union every week! | |
| 4 Aug 08, 11:10 PM MadamRattan UK(NE), 6 yrs £ |
If I were you I would do some research about the area, look at the Pro-Domme sites, you could try and write explaining your predicament and you never know, someone may take pity on you and offer you a reduced rate (or they may not). Or you could go to a club with resident or dungeon Mistress/es and ask very nicely if they will play with you if they are not too busy, offer them a foot massage, thats always needed at the clubs I go to. Also there are often other Mistresses that may well play with you, talk to people, get to know people, ask people. Or you may have a skill that you may be able to offer in exchange for a session or two, maybe you are good at decorating, gardening, housework, painting dungeons, driving Mistress, housecleaning, something else? That may work, it may not, but its worth a try. Something Mistress wants, not neccesarily something you want to do. And, you could fill in your profile, if you ever did contact someone here, well there really isnt alot to go on is there? you would not get past first base unless you were paying for a session. Good luck. | |
| 4 Aug 08, 11:18 PM Swishy UK(BD), 7 yrs |
Or sell your arse for a week or two
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| 9 Aug 08, 3:39 PM MistressGI UK(BH), 6 yrs £ |
The CK club have parties in Bournemouth, they are a friendly crowd, look at their website.
you might find someone to play with you there.
I agree that if you offer your services as a slave ,you might just get lucky. Lifes a Bitch....Isn't it fun | |
| 9 Aug 08, 9:49 PM Yorkshiredom68 UK(HX), 3 yrs |
or could become a professional sub?????? Then that way you get the beating you want/deserve and get money too.......... | |
| 10 Aug 08, 5:32 PM wonderer UK, 5 yrs |
I guess a lot of organisations offer student discount, but not normally professional services. I wonder if many clients wold be prepared to pay a bit more to allow student discount to be offered.
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