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| 3 Aug 08, 7:35 PM Ms_Tytania 7 yrs |
Prospective clients could see a pro-Domme as "less effective" (in a general way) for a number or reasons: he likes blondes and she's brunette; she's too far away; she doesn't mention a favourite activity, she's got an unappealing accent on the phone... etc, etc. There is no pleasing everybody and there is no need to try. A pro-Domme who wants to succeed without burning out would be honest, would show her personality in her website and sessions, and she wouldn't have any hangups about ehr own limitations. This way, would therefore attract people who are like minded. It helps making professional sessions much more enjoyable and rewarding. Cultivate your inner whore | |
| 24 Aug 08, 6:01 PM Penny_Louise 5 yrs |
I fought shy of pro-switching or pro-subbing for a long time, thinking it would conflict with client confidence. But I've started offering it, a very different way of working and I believe it adds to my skills, abilities and experience.
And as a bonus, it can be great fun Lady Alpha Intelligent domination and disciplinary coaching Life coaching and therapy | |
| 24 Aug 08, 6:34 PM TheScorpionQueen UK(CH), 5 yrs  |
I am open about being a switch, the options are endless ~ as long as the client has full trust in the domme the rest should be immaterial. A submissive tease when a client/victim is restrained works magic, let them have a sniff then snap it shut, back to kicking ass
it would be wrong of you to assume - in english it translates to "just because I may acknowledge a compliment it doesn't mean I want to sit on your face" innit! | |
| 25 Aug 08, 11:15 PM Tara_Red UK(B), 5 yrs £ |
In my commercial adverts (I don't advertise on this board it's my fun time!) I advertise as 'I love to switch' as I get a lot of spankee blokes who like the tables turned on them half way through a session and the schoolie suddenly becomes the headmistress who has caught the teacher in the act and gives him some of his own medicine! However I am not a domme or a mistress and would never even dream to advertise as such, although I am fairly competent in caning and flogging and carrying out a number of roleplays and teasing scenarios, it doesn't do anything for me (at least just now). The blokes who ask me to switch are just looking for a bit of fun and not looking for a serious domme or a serious pain session therefore would only be looking for a switch. If I myself was looking for a non pro(which I am in my personal life) I would only want a dom and not a switch as I prefer subbing to one who is completely dominant over me and someone who I then don't see submitting to anyone else as it undermines the power they hold over me. Been there, seen it, done that and it just did not work, I lost all respect for them finding out they could take less pain than me! | |
| 31 Aug 08, 4:52 PM Miss_Katie_TV UK(SL), 4 yrs £ |
I advertise as a “switch” and it works for me, I have clients who want me just Dom. Or Sub. But quite a few want a switch session with me. I do not have a dungeon but specialise more on domestic type scenarios/ role play CP. & dressing, In Dom role I play Head mistress, strict aunt, ect, or in Sub role, school girl, secretary, traffic warden ect, A lot of my clients who book me either Dom or Sub then decide they like the idea of a switch session with me and most really enjoy it, so I think I can safely say that advertising the fact that I switch dose not put off my type of client. | |
| 31 Aug 08, 5:45 PM subdita UK(WC), 6 yrs £  |
I have recently found myself "topping from the bottom", though non-verbally. It's not that I want to be top, it's more that I've had the opportunity to learn what turns the Doms on, and so I do my best to recreate such a situation. Having said that, I never EVER take a booking where I might have to top, as being in charge gives me the giggles, which ruins the mood a bit! | |
| 1 Sep 08, 7:53 AM lacywhitepanties 4 yrs |
I dont switch so I personally would not go for a pro switch, the psychology would be all wrong. If you want a dominant woman to punish you there can be no sign of weakness from her which switching is. | |
| 1 Sep 08, 10:57 AM Jahc99 UK, 5 yrs |
Oh dear...... what total and utter bollocks. Now go and tell an egg how to suck granny. | |
| 1 Sep 08, 11:32 AM chartreuse UK(BA), 6 yrs  |
It's not only bollocks it misses the mark by miles! As a switch (albeit a dominant one) I have never had anyone, who has experienced me as a Domme, not want to return for more or say that I'm weak... when I'm dominant I'm dominant, if I wasn't "strong" enough the subs wouldn't come back for more, would they?
"Truth is stranger than fiction." | |
| 1 Sep 08, 11:40 AM Original_Rebel UK(CT), 10 yrs |
I have to say that to me (and i am also a switch) you are the ultimate Dominant....the fact that you switch is neither here nor there. ETA i have been in the scene a long time and know what i am talking about. "No wise man ever wished to be younger."
Jonathan Swift
Irish essayist, novelist, & satirist (1667 - 1745) Edited 1 Sep 08, 11:42 AM by Original_Rebel |
