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2 Dec 2008, 11:06 AM GMT
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IC : Web boards : UK D/s Relationships : "emotional masochism"
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emotional masochism (86)
Sun 13 Jul 08, 10:15 PM
PinkParanoia
UK(SE), 3 yrs 
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Does anybody know about that? Is it possible that a gal needs her mind and heart to be hurt and humiliated? Is it possible she always goes for the wrong guy because her need to be unhappy is just as big as her need to be submissive in a sexual context?
PS: Michael99 - I know your answer so don't bother! Only really tall conductors can deal adequately with slow music.
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13 Jul 08, 10:18 PM
mmutie
UK, 3 yrs
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MsGiggles wrote:
emotional masochism
Does anybody know about that? Is it possible that a gal needs her mind and heart to be hurt and humiliated? Is it possible she always goes for the wrong guy because her need to be unhappy is just as big as her need to be submissive in a sexual context?
PS: Michael99 - I know your answer so don't bother!
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you should talk to pinklucy.... |
13 Jul 08, 10:46 PM
Evil_Black_Alice
UK, 2 yrs
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MsGiggles wrote:
emotional masochism
Does anybody know about that? Is it possible that a gal needs her mind and heart to be hurt and humiliated? Is it possible she always goes for the wrong guy because her need to be unhappy is just as big as her need to be submissive in a sexual context?
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That just makes me sad really.
But that is because I think everyone should be happy and that happiness is what everyone should strive for. If it is not good, what is the point? Of you need to be unhappy perhaps it is because deep down you feel you don't deserve happiness? In which case I would say look at the reasons for why you also seek unhappiness, rather than a person to make you so.
I just don't understand why anyone would want such grief in their lives..... Original Alice
Pox ridden sons of circus whores need not apply.... 
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13 Jul 08, 10:51 PM
CPeccavi
UK(L), 9 mths
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I'd say there were BIG problems if someone needs to be unhappy. People do repeat patterns, though, so it's not unusual to find someone choosing one bad and even identical situation after another. The most powerful weapon on earth is the human soul on fire. ~Ferdinand Foch
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13 Jul 08, 10:53 PM
Harrynflicks
UK(DA), 21 mths
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MsGiggles wrote:
emotional masochism
Does anybody know about that? Is it possible that a gal needs her mind and heart to be hurt and humiliated? Is it possible she always goes for the wrong guy because her need to be unhappy is just as big as her need to be submissive in a sexual context?
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There have been times when I have wondered about this...lol
But know I much prefer to be happy, preferably all the time! 
fugger fugger fugger - love with all your heart and you will know both joy and sorrow. 
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13 Jul 08, 11:00 PM
Miss_Tura
UK, 18 mths
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philophobia Fear of falling in love or being in love Miss T
unNilla - you know you want to
This is torture, at its most bizarre and terrible. - Batman
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13 Jul 08, 11:01 PM
CPeccavi
UK(L), 9 mths
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Miss_Tura wrote:
philophobia Fear of falling in love or being in love
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Best on Ryvita The most powerful weapon on earth is the human soul on fire. ~Ferdinand Foch
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13 Jul 08, 11:02 PM
Miss_Tura
UK, 18 mths
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CPeccavi wrote:
Miss_Tura wrote:
philophobia Fear of falling in love or being in love
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Best on Ryvita
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or crackers
Miss T
unNilla - you know you want to
This is torture, at its most bizarre and terrible. - Batman
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13 Jul 08, 11:04 PM
temperance
UK, 2 yrs
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I've been thinking about this of late, as i also believe im an "emotional masochist". Well only in as much i enter into 'relationships' with people where i know i will never be able to have them, and as strange as it may sound i dont want them.... i then develope strong feeling's for them... not love, but definately lust... and for me the pull is the fact that i know i cant have them, well not completely anyway, just a taste ...... if i know i can, then i lose intrest... I must say im really rather happy with this arrangement as it is....
~* Raku wa ku no tané; ku wa raku no tané.
*~
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13 Jul 08, 11:06 PM
Taintedinnocence
UK, 3 yrs
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Its been discussed prior to this in the past....
http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/boards/ukds/173...
Thought you might find that useful |
13 Jul 08, 11:11 PM
t_toxic
UK(BN), 8 mths
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CPeccavi wrote:
Miss_Tura wrote:
philophobia Fear of falling in love or being in love
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Best on Ryvita
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very good - that made me chortle!
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