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IC : Weblogs : Hollytg : "A gay"

A gay (4)

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Posted by Hollytg on Sun 22 Jun 08, 9:18 PM

"He's a gay"

"A gay"...where does that come from?. Someone is not "a" gay, they are gay. I hate that. You don't say "I'm a sad" or " You are a blind"

"Gay" is a descriptive word "I am a gay man", "You are a blind man"

Hxx

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22 Jun 08, 9:21 PM astrid_the_spy UK(G), 4 yrs	Hybernation wrote: "He's a gay" "A gay"...where does that come from?. Someone is not "a" gay, they are gay. I hate that. You don't say "I'm a sad" or " You are a blind" "Gay" is a descriptive word "I am a gay man", "You are a blind man" Hxx For similar reasons I hate being called "a sub". But that's me just being picky.
22 Jun 08, 10:12 PM sub_roxxy UK, 8 mths	I also despise "the gays" in the same way that I despise "the blacks". "The gay people", surely, and "the black people". Right? (feel I should point out that I hate the phrase "the gays/blacks" - I don't hate black or gay people!)
22 Jun 08, 10:22 PM Mistress_Dragonfly UK(B), 10 mths	sub_roxxy wrote: I also despise "the gays" in the same way that I despise "the blacks". "The gay people", surely, and "the black people". Right? (feel I should point out that I hate the phrase "the gays/blacks" - I don't hate black or gay people!) I hate it when people say "you're COLOURED" I'm not pink with green spots, stripey or any other colour but BLACK but love it when they say "you're A beautiful woman". Now that, I like...
23 Jun 08, 5:03 AM submike_m42 UK, 8 mths Y!	Mistress_Dragonfly wrote: I hate it when people say "you're COLOURED" I'm not pink with green spots, stripey or any other colour but BLACK but love it when they say "you're A beautiful woman". Now that, I like... A friend of mine had this on a T-shirt once: When you are born you are purple When you get older you are pink When you are ill you go green When you are angry you go red When you die you go grey When I am born I am black When I get older I am black When I get ill I am black When I get angry I am black When I die I am black and you have the f***ing cheek to call me coloured Even as a white guy I thought that was good. mike Experienced in life, and learning in BDSM.