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| 18 Jun 08, 8:29 AM rubyd 8 yrs |
Oh those people who just love to be the bearer of bad-tidings. If I gave it shit it might annoy me. | ||
| 18 Jun 08, 9:03 AM Dark_Eyes UK, 6 yrs |
However, you often post mentioning all this perceived negativity, the back stabs, the abuse... Honestly feral_puss, if you want to get positive vibes, you'll have to start by posting in a more positive light yourself. Your fixation with abuse, helping, etc, is all over these forums. [/quote] To state one has an Emotional Disability at the start of their profile is not a positive way of thinking. You make of your life what you choose. There will plenty here who have had bad experiences, abuse, unhappiness but they won't dwell on it, thrive on it and spout about to anyone who will listen, personally a domme/dom (who used to be slave no less) with that amount of visable baggage would set alarm bells ringing for me. If I'm to put myself in their hands/care/direction I want someone who won't drag me down with them.
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| 18 Jun 08, 9:34 AM Ms_Tytania 7 yrs |
What is an Emotional Disability?
Cultivate your inner whore | ||
| 18 Jun 08, 9:38 AM dementia_von_gurth UK(DA), 4 yrs   |
i think people in general are not to be trusted .. i'm not sure if scene folk are less trustworthy as i avoid them at all costs ... although the dealings i have had with them leads me to believe that they are mostly unstable on at least a few levels .. some to a greater degree than others .. but that may have just been bad luck on my part as i seem to attract those kind of people ... the stoners, emotionally unstables, rebounders, fruitcakes and over 50's. hope for the best but expect the worst and you can't go too far wrong. all for one and fuck the rest ! | ||
| 18 Jun 08, 9:39 AM spirifer UK, 6 yrs |
I think, on the whole, that sums it up for me too. Common sense is absolutely one's friend, as it is in everyday life. The state has no business in the bedrooms of the nation - Pierre Trudeau | ||
| 18 Jun 08, 9:55 AM milomj28 UK(CH), 10 yrs |
Yes,i have been lied to,abused,ripped off,hurt,the world of bdsm can be cruel just like the vanilla world.I really find its best to keep out of the scene,and hope that i still meet the right dom for me.There is ,however a lot of good people in the bdsm world,and some of my best friends are bdsm people,so there is good and bad. There is ,however a few fwmales who just wish to use male subs like me ,so i am very wary. | ||
| 18 Jun 08, 10:14 AM Degenerate  UK(M), 5 yrs   |
I think it's MORE involvement in the local community which helps avoid this, not less, as you can get a guage of people by observation and reputation. Online is where most of the advantage taking happens. De Report of demo on 14th June: http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/boards/activism... .... Sign porn petition (re CJIB & 'extreme images'! http://petitions.pm.gov.uk/extreme-images/ ... CJIB Wiki: http://www.seenoevil.org.uk/wiki/index.php/Main_... | ||
| 18 Jun 08, 10:22 AM Little_Miss_Shy UK(PO), 4 yrs |
Surely this post should not have any replies...? * Honesty is the best policy * | ||
| 18 Jun 08, 10:29 AM meadow 4 yrs |
People get abused, stolen from, deceived and let down in the Vanilla world as much as anyone else. People who are Kinky are the same. They are normal people with all the fuck-ups and problems that normal people have. You get some good and some bad. | ||
| 18 Jun 08, 6:08 PM Dark_Eyes UK, 6 yrs |
It is socio-speak for depression, panic attacks, can't be bothered, woe is me, life is crap and often applies to persons who can't be arsed to get themselves a job, they are usually happier to sponge of tax payers and mope around all day. But manage ordinary lives aside from that, all the socialising they can manage, shopping, visit friends, holidays, meals, cinema etc and yet ask them to work a few hours a week and watch how debilitated they become
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