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IC : Weblogs : Lady_Katt : "The morning after."

The morning after. (1)

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Posted by Lady_Katt on Fri 13 Jun 08, 10:35 AM

Last night was a big step for me and luke, our insecurities and the past had been shadowing our relationship with our knowledge, and as much as we know how perfect we are for each other, the past always hovered over us like a great monster waiting to spit out bones of pain and doubt at us.

Yesterday luke had his first day in owned chastity, something he had wanted for so long and was able to finally put all his newfound knowledge and understanding of himself into practice, alongside my actions as a Mistress in a way he sought.

Once more the fires glowed from within and made me realise this is why I had allowed him to run the course of his insecurities.. I know he is the one for me - in every capacity of his being from sub to spiritual, lover to father, friend to soulmate. It has not been easy but a new benchmark has been set and a huge leap forward has occured.

Yesterday I put luke on the slave register, we discussed and chatted about this for a long time, and I explained I have never offered this to anyone else nor wanted so much to take on the responsibility of someone. Mind you, I have never found someone who I have wanted to do this for, despite much interest from past submissives.

Luke to me is someone I will always cherish - whatever path we wander together I know we both believe the friendship we have formed will never be one to fall to the wayside. With hope and a good blast of luck, our future is now within our sights and we can now enjoy moving forward, having left much turmoil behind.

So I suppose I am writing this to acknowledge luke, not just as someone special in my life, but as his Mistress whom he never thought would be found. As one who understands him, respects him and his sexuality and his needs, and loves him for just being himself - warts n all.. and trust me he is not always a good boy!

So now we look to the future, with a new focus and a new addition to our lifestyle.. a number.. 520-255-567 and I can honestly say this ownership, and lukes chastity, means to me as much as what it means to luke, and hopefuly he can finally acknowledge, he has found the One and will now embrace the rewards in their full glory.

Time will tell, but I for one am smiling, with pride and happiness.

Mistress Katt x

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15 Jun 08, 10:07 AM
Windwalker
UK(S), 7 mths

So now you can call me 520-255-567 for short! Catchy, huh?!

I don't know what to say really. I seem to be on a steep curve of experience, learning something every day, sometimes about things I thought I already knew. Perhaps before I was peeping through the keyhole - and that was fun at times - but as I open up more, and am opened up by my relationship with Katt, I keep finding new insights and feelings with each new day.

No one ever asked or offered to put me on the slave register before, so it's a definite first for me and a powerful experience. Moving and also quite scary. But isn't that all part of the reason we're here in this 'ism'? To be moved, to experience the thrill of life and all it's facets, including the fear of moving on beyond our comfort zones? (or was that my erogenous zones I was thinking of?!)

So, learning a little more every day, moving along a little more, with my Mistress by my side. I don't know what else to say. Don't want to make it TOO goody-goody.Apparently, Mistress tells me I'm not the most submissive man she's ever met - but she likes a challenge! And do I enjoy being challenging! What a lucky Mistress!!!

Ow!

Thank you Mistress Katt for something else I've never known before! A relationship which moves beyond these pages. One I'm enjoying more day by day.

Luke xx

Luke xxx

Luke, Windwalker; owned by Mistress Katt.
'There is no way to peace and happiness; peace and happiness is the way' The Buddha.

 
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