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| 30 Jun 08, 9:56 AM Mistress_Keene 9 yrs £ |
Ditto what MistressLadyAnna has said. "One half of the world cannot understand the pleasures of the other" Emma ( Ch 13) Jane Austen 1816 | ||
| 30 Jun 08, 9:59 AM Lady_Anna_Bradford UK(BD), 5 yrs |
Thank you
"If no sexual offence is being committed it seems very odd indeed that there should be an offence for having an image of something which was not an offence," Lord Wallace of Tankerness | ||
| 30 Jun 08, 11:49 AM Ms_Tytania 6 yrs |
I'm sure we all read that the first time. No need to bang on your unrequested explanations, I for one, am going to start doubting your excelent, educational intentions* if you say it just one more time.
* Not to mention your impressive IQ Cultivate your inner whore Edited 30 Jun 08, 11:54 AM by Ms_Tytania | ||
| 30 Jun 08, 2:27 PM Jahc01 3 yrs £ |
Well there's a bit more to it than that, me thinks. There is all the anticipation, mental preparation. There is a very high level of trust, implicit in the fact that they have delivered themselves to the dungeon door, no safecalls, and in the dungeon no-one can hear you scream! Then there is an implicit protocol from the off, a formal address, a knowing of who is what and that is the way it will be. Just the very fact of being where you are means much in itself, establishes elements of the dynamic automatically. I think a trickier thing to describe is the way baggage is left at the door too. Because that makes it sound impersonal, and that's not what I mean. I mean that, even if there are troubles and issues in wider life, and we all have those, this is a special time, where we can really be free as ourselves. Perhaps the effect of being in a dungeon environment rather than a bedroom or living room too - I remember the first time I entered a PD dungeon, quite some experience, that, even though I was there to teach rope rather than be a client. And there is no point in being self conscious with a pro, just go for it. The whole arrangement peals away inhibitions, like that. I am sure there are more aspects, but there are many special qualities to professional domination that seem to add up to being able to go further, faster, than in other playtimes. It's really rather great, that. Edited 30 Jun 08, 2:59 PM by Jahc01 | ||
| 30 Jun 08, 3:33 PM Mistress_Susannah UK(SE), 6 yrs £ |
Yes - I did say later on in my post that I was being facetious with the cat thing - but you've described things much better than I could have done. Thanks. xxx | ||
| 30 Jun 08, 4:18 PM Jahc99 UK, 5 yrs |
Kinda explains why it's so damned knackering too! | ||
| 30 Jun 08, 4:35 PM Lady_Anna_Bradford UK(BD), 5 yrs |
Isn't it just! Sometimes after a really intense 2 hour session I go to bed for a kip - er, I mean power nap.
"If no sexual offence is being committed it seems very odd indeed that there should be an offence for having an image of something which was not an offence," Lord Wallace of Tankerness | ||
| 30 Jun 08, 5:01 PM SemiTrainedApe UK, 4 yrs |
Don't rub it in, woman! Not all of us have jobs where you work for 2 hours, get paid a hundred and fifty quid, and get to touch people's bits! Telling us you have a kip every afternoon is a boast too far!
It's not illegal if the monkey's up for it. | ||
| 30 Jun 08, 5:06 PM Lady_Anna_Bradford UK(BD), 5 yrs |
...and I get flowers, or choccies, or stockings and sometimes I get Champagne to quaff.
"If no sexual offence is being committed it seems very odd indeed that there should be an offence for having an image of something which was not an offence," Lord Wallace of Tankerness | ||
| 30 Jun 08, 5:24 PM SemiTrainedApe UK, 4 yrs |
Sometimes at work I get free doughnuts. Who's the winner, now, eh?
It's not illegal if the monkey's up for it. |