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IC : Weblogs : submike_m42 : "The profile has changed again.........."

The profile has changed again.......... (1)

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submike_m42
Posted by submike_m42 on Sun 8 Jun 08, 10:20 PM

Due to unforeseen circumstances, my situation has changed again. The special friend mentioned in the past, has decided to remain as just that a "friend". The ideas of growing old together etc, have changed.

As a result I am back on the market.

"Great" I hear you all grumble "another male sub, lurking about".

Yes I know that there are a lot of us, but I cannot help my situation.

I am not looking for pity with this blog. After all its better to know the truth than live a lie.

Ok the score may read relationships 0 friendships 1.

But when I first joined IC the scores were relationships 0 friendshps 0. So you see there is a gain.

A valauable lesson has been learned, although I cannot state that maybe similar mistakes won't happen in the future.

To forbid myself from making similar errors, would be to forbid myself from trusting people via the internet. That I feel would be counter productive to say the least.

I also wish to take this opportunity to thank my friend for the time spent, and to point out that this change in my situation is, by no means a slur on that friend either.

She is a genuine Lady, but our lives are at different junctions, hence the situation I find myself in.

So I am here, looking for experiences, to further me on my journey, looking for friendships and, to coin that old cliche "maybe more".

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8 Jun 08, 10:37 PM
x_Raven_x*
UK(CR), 3 yrs
Sorry things haven't worked out the way you'd hoped but as you say you do have a friend now which is always a good thing.

I wish you well and hope you find your lady very soon :-)

 
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