Posted by SinPar
on Sat 7 Jun 08, 8:38 PM to SinPar's blog.
There is something surprisingly simple to that whole attitude. Something essential and something that applies across both gender and sexuality..
I was fortunate to attend an SM retreat with a young woman who reminded me of that a few years ago. We were talking about what happens when you're in a D/s, M/s: TPE relationship when life's problems come up and there is friction. She has a standard approach "I beat 'em and fuck 'em."
Friction between her slaves? "Beat 'em and fuck 'em".
Bad mood? "Beat 'em and fuck 'em".
Bad behavior? "Determine why it happened, then either get rid of them or beat 'em and fuck 'em."
I was all ready to be disdainful then it occurred to me that she'd had both of these men in her life for more than 3 years at the time and more than 5 years at this writing.
Our paths cross occasionally and I always say "Beat'em and fuck'em" to myself when I see her. It makes me smile.
KISS for SM.
SinPar
| 7 Jun 08, 9:52 PM striped1 UK(YO), 11 yrs  |
She sounds like my kind of gal.  "It's too orangey for crows." | |
| 7 Jun 08, 10:12 PM SinPar US, 12 yrs |
Interestingly one of her boys is from the UK also, the other's from the US. -- The weak are the most treacherous of us all. They come to the strong and drain them. They are bottomless. They are insatiable. They are always parched and always bitter. They are everyone's concern, and like vampires they suck our life's blood. (Bette Davis) | |
| 8 Jun 08, 9:26 AM MisterBear UK(WA), 8 yrs  |
I wonder if that works on women or if you have to add buy them shoes at the end? Heh, me lead you? Lady look at me, I don't even know where the hell I am half the time! | |
| 13 Aug 08, 1:49 AM LeatherEagle UK(S), 7 yrs |
~laughs to self~ I have thought about this from both sides of the fence and well,,,,,,,,,,,, I agree that it's worth trying....lol xxx
"Fear is the ultimate sensation" |
