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| 6 Jun 08, 8:34 PM Snowpard 4 yrs |
I agree with both here, I remember one day it all ecame clear by accident when we were having a playfight in the kitchen. He was about to whip me with a tea towel so I said in jest ''if you love me you won't do it :D *bats eyelids* ''
and with a grin he said ''It's because I love you so much that I need to hurt you (not sure if it's on the same wavelength but at the time I felt the reply was apt) E-petition against CJIB: http://petitions.pm.gov.uk/extreme-images/ (every little helps!) Beautiful gothic/victorian style rings: http://www.etsy.com/shop.php?user_id=5234429 | ||
| 6 Jun 08, 8:58 PM boy050505 UK, 7 yrs |
Because they have a speech impediment? Or perhaps they had their mouths full since they were having their cake and eating it?
Life is not a munch. | ||
| 6 Jun 08, 9:23 PM scarletwitch UK, 4 yrs   |
Why oh why are threads like this turned into bitching and point scoring forums? NightHawk has asked a civilised question, looking for guidance and peoples experience in this area. For the person asking about using a M at the beginning....does it really matter to you or anyone else if thats what people choose to do? We all have a choice.. im sure if people asked information seeking questions, rather than antagonistic challenging questions, then their own knowledge may actually expand with the information they receive back. Night Hawk is from an era prior to the internet, what some people would call Old Guard, an era when manners and etiquette were paramount, when using a M rather than a m was a sign of respect given (note the word given, not expected!) To NightHawk, Your slave loves You, she adores You, and wishes to serve You. You have had major changes in Your life recently aswell as poor health. Allow her to serve You in the ways that she can, allow her to make Your life easier during these times, even if it is just cooking You nice meals, bathing You. she is slave, You are her Master, she is there to make Your life easier. A slave is happiest at her Masters feet and in service, it doesnt matter that maybe the S&M part of the relationship is on hold, that is only a small part of what Y/you have, she is slave first and foremost, not masochist. As for the question, 'Can You love Your slave too much'. my answer is this from a submissives perspective. No You cant love them too much, You love them as much as You wish, the deeper the love, the deeper the connection...however...the slave/submissive as true as she/he is, will never forget her/his place in service despite the depth of love, in fact it will make her/him serve better, with more depth and adoration of their Owner. My suggestion to Y/you both would be to go somewhere wild and peaceful, to sit together, to clear Y/your minds, to shake of the everyday hassles of normal everyday life, to find Y/yourselves again and in doing so will find what Y/you search for, Peace and Tranquility. Regards and respects to Nighthawk and His slave and warmest wishes. Blessed Be | ||
| 6 Jun 08, 11:21 PM newserenity 4 yrs |
this is NightHawks slave and i love my Master so much it hurts but we have had problems and some people do have to bitch on these threads think its a way of being noticed but hey you get them everywhere do you know what i admire a Master #Top Dom that comes on here to askfor help it shows they are human and i have read some of the post back and it has helped a lot and i can thank a lot of you for that and as for the capital M i will always use it it is my sign of respect we have been in the lifestyle 35 years between us and it is something we know and which works for us not everyone but thank you all for your help on this subject everything has been taken into hand serenity slave to NightHawk | ||
| 9 Jun 08, 4:11 AM DDDDom 6 yrs |
Yeah that's real bondage .... soweeee.... I do agree... And as for old skool - sorry I'm probably older than the posters put together and have never seen it myself that's why I have 4 capital D's = I find capitalisation absurd and ridiculous...
Edited 9 Jun 08, 4:14 AM by DDDDom | ||
| 9 Jun 08, 9:46 AM Degenerate  UK(M), 5 yrs   |
Let all the love you can into your life. I have two slaves that I adore. De COME TO THE DEMO 14th June!! http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/boards/activism... .... Sign porn petition (re CJIB & 'extreme images'! http://petitions.pm.gov.uk/extreme-images/ ... CJIB Wiki: http://www.seenoevil.org.uk/wiki/index.php/Main_... | ||
| 10 Jun 08, 8:50 AM nayeh_slave 6 yrs |
i didnt think my M/s love and my nilla love for my Master were diferent from each other, i moved away from family and friends in May last year to love full time with my Master who has owned me for 3 yrs or so now and my love for Him has always be strong and to me was never labelled one or the other ie: BDSM or nilla, i know since i ahve moved in with Him our feelings for each other have grown immensly we have got to know each better in many many ways...ways that maybe wouldnt have been so easy had we still been living apart.
Yes we do the whole going to work being ill doing the shopping and chores ect it is all intergrated into our M/s and nilla life i cannot see why the two cannot compliment each other so making a very happy and fulfilled life
something i feel trully blessed to have. nayeh | ||
| 10 Jun 08, 3:59 PM mstrtiger UK(CA), 6 yrs |
I prefer to maintain an emotional distance from my slaves not really by choice I guess it is just something that happens though I have a primary lover I am quite attached to so I guess it is easier for me to do it that for people who are specifically committed to one person. Why not visit my website, www.tigerdom.com | ||
| 10 Jun 08, 4:12 PM Jahc99 UK, 5 yrs |
Not sure if this is relevent, but I shall offer it up anyway. When we first got together, she had no problem being very sadistic and exceedingly dominant with me - infact, that is how we met. As grew closer, she moved in and the love thing got going, we were both a bit stumped as to why it became hard for her to hurt me, not hard, she just didn't want to so often. Weird, there was me, getting more into subbie and masochist territory, and yet.... What it was, with hindsight, was that all the other feelings, tenderness, loving, all the rest, were developing and needed some time at the top of the agenda. Now that they have become established, stronger, deeper, she is back to being as sadistic as she pleases. So maybe it is just a natural stage in these things sometimes. I'd say give it time, relax, and enjoy each passing phase as you find it, for they each have a magic of their own.
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| 14 Jun 08, 1:44 AM Eustacia_Vye VE, 5 yrs |
Brilliant!!! |
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