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Let's put a stop to this! (30)

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Sun 1 Jun 08, 12:15 PM
CrystalTipps
UK(SS), 6 yrs
Married liars, age, height, weight, mental stability liars, even 'equipment liars' for Christ's sake!

Lets put an end to this madness by asking one thing.

In my experience, the ones who bleat on about honesty and fidelity etc. are the ones most likely to be the liars and the cheats.

If you consistently post with variations on the same topic, does the same rule apply?

x

"If God had wanted me to bend over, he would have put diamonds on the floor..."

1 Jun 08, 12:21 PM
Pierced_Knight
5 yrs
CrystalTipps wrote:
Let's put a stop to this!

If you consistently post with variations on the same topic, does the same rule apply?

Let's be honest, it's not going to put a stop to it, is it. The thing that I believe is that people are responsible for making their own reputations on open forum sites like this. You can only be judged by what you write. I have an inordinate amount of respect for some people on here and others I have none. I have never met some of these people and in all reality, probably never will. However, I have still formed an opinion on them from what they have written.

So...I say let the wise and curious continue to make this an interesting site and let the numpty's continue to dig their own holes.

Regards,

Pierced Knight.

Educate to Liberate! Liberation through Education!
"ci, jian, bugan wei tianxia xian"

1 Jun 08, 12:24 PM
twisted_kitty
UK(OX), 4 yrs

Let em get on with it as long as they not hurting people ..oppppps wrong site :-D

What I dont like is this supposed to be an open forum so those who post should expect the fact there are people who have different opinions.

What cracks me up is they then proceed to get mad at people for having a different opinions. I mean you posted on public forum 'divvies'... i mean why do it if your then going to be offended by what people say.

If you post some thing offensive your usually an attention seeker. If we comment its our stupid fault for feeding you the attention you need. We should not complain.

I enjoy reading the threads. Though I AM getting sick of the size and judgemental threads, they are getting dull. Unfortunalty we all keep making comments on them. I include myself in that, maybe a little more control and disperline is needed on my part. Theres nothing new there i suppose !!

Life is a biatch ... fuck her dont take her too seriously but love her with all your heart!
comments are always edited cause i is a typo princess innit though ... am i bothered :-D :-D :-D :-D

Edited 1 Jun 08, 12:35 PM by twisted_kitty

1 Jun 08, 12:40 PM
twisted_kitty
UK(OX), 4 yrs

PhoenixBuddha70 wrote:
PhoenixBuddha70 wrote:
Lets go even further! How about this- it's radical, so take a deep breath- we could have at least a few threads per day which were actually positive, appreciative, generous, giving and not infected with cynicism and misogyny. There are loads of lovely people on here who frequently post in just this way, so it just takes a little intention from them to balance the negativity.

Oh you're so fucking nice, aren't you. When was the last time you had sex. Send me a pic. God, you're fucking ugly. What a loser.

lol

Life is a biatch ... fuck her dont take her too seriously but love her with all your heart!
comments are always edited cause i is a typo princess innit though ... am i bothered :-D :-D :-D :-D

1 Jun 08, 12:42 PM
BarbieSlutLoki
UK(E), 6 yrs
Why worry, in something like this they'll be found out soon enough

I can understand to degree people lying about their weight through insecurity, but it's a bit silly when they're going to be found out the moment they meet

Anything else is just as pointless, and the issue is that wastes peoples time

The first rule of Brat Club, we don't talk about Brat Club...
Neque porro quisquam est qui dolorem ipsum quia dolor sit amet, consectetur, adipisci velit...

1 Jun 08, 12:43 PM
Mistress_Hypatia
UK, 5 yrs
Anyone who thinks that BDSMers are all nice, sweet, honest people is going to get a nasty shock at some point. People lie, cheat and deceive. Some people are good at it and don't get found out quickly and some people are bad at it and it's obvious from the beginning.

Even people who have been on the Scene for years cannot always be trusted - sometimes, twenty years on the Scene is actually twenty years' Not Found Out. A good question to ask is "Who does this person know, and to what extent?" To a certain extent, you can judge someone by their friends - if you like the majority of their close friends, you're probably OK. If you find someone who has a network of over two hundred, but doesn't appear to have any close friends...well, be careful. There may be good reasons - or it may be that the person is one of those who's been around for years but leaves a trail of broken friendships behind them if you care to look.

Eventually, a liar's untruths will become obvious. The thing is, will that be before or after they've caused you a significant amount of unhappiness? There's no substitute for a bit of well-placed caution.

Caveat emptor.

--A lady is never offensive... by accident.--
--Matthew 7:16--

1 Jun 08, 12:44 PM
Pierced_Knight
5 yrs
PhoenixBuddha70 wrote:
Lets go even further! we could have at least a few threads per day which were actually positive, appreciative, generous, giving and not infected with cynicism and misogyny.

To make this even easier, all of the good, wise and generous people could *only* post on the good, wise and generous threads whilst the twats could post only the twat threads. It would be appreciated if twats began their threads with the pro word 'twat'. That would make it easier for identification purposes and ensure that good people weren't misguided in posting on a twat thread.

Bloody hell, I've actually fixed IC! Go me!

Pierced Knight.

Educate to Liberate! Liberation through Education!
"ci, jian, bugan wei tianxia xian"
"I'm just a bloody normal bloke. A normal bloke who likes a bit of torture" Mark 'Chopper' Read.

1 Jun 08, 1:00 PM
bambam101
4 yrs
If you really wanted to not communicate with liars you'd not leave the house, watch telly or buy a newspaper, the world is fucking full of them. When I go to my local boozer there's alway's a heavywieght bullshitter at the bar boring people with claims about their previous careers palying for Man Utd reserves or being in the SAS. It's no surprise to me that the walter mittys are in the bdsm world as well!
1 Jun 08, 1:09 PM
Evil_Black_Alice
UK, 5 yrs
Pierced_Knight wrote:
To make this even easier, all of the good, wise and generous people could *only* post on the good, wise and generous threads whilst the twats could post only the twat threads. It would be appreciated if twats began their threads with the pro word 'twat'. That would make it easier for identification purposes and ensure that good people weren't misguided in posting on a twat thread.

Bloody hell, I've actually fixed IC! Go me!

Pierced Knight.

Twats infect all threads though.

That is why they are twats! It is what they do, if you try to ignore them they will just create more threads.

Alice - spends far too much time arguing with twats

Original Alice
Pox ridden sons of circus whores need not apply.... ;)

1 Jun 08, 1:24 PM
Evil_Black_Alice
UK, 5 yrs
PhoenixBuddha70 wrote:
Evil_Black_Alice wrote:
Twats infect all threads though.

And they have little insight into their twathood. In fact, I may well be one myself. It is probably an intermittent state of being rather than a fixed property.

It could be, but there are lifestyle twats on here also ;)

Original Alice
Pox ridden sons of circus whores need not apply.... ;)

1 Jun 08, 1:25 PM
Sleazyweazel
UK, 4 yrs
Pierced_Knight wrote:
Bloody hell, I've actually fixed IC! Go me!

Apart from the problem of "Stealth Twats" - who honestly believe they are being one of the honest, wise, brave, and true when they are actually a complete muppet.

Far more dangerous than the Twue Twat (who can can at least take a telling). The Stealth Twat instead responds to any and all accusations of twattery by spewing even more twattish nonsense. The Stealth Twat usually justifies its excursions into Twatville by claiming it is "helping people" or setting-the-world-to-rights, rather than just having a massive ego-wank.

Suggestions on a postcard to the usual address.

"I like my tea like my women - sweet, white, and weak!"

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