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half wits, wannbes, tossers, boring (4)

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Fri 30 May 08, 2:35 PM
sapphogirl
NL, 3 yrs
£
It has come to My attention in last few weeks, that have discovered My new pet hate, this being , so called subs that try to top from the bottom, or think baiting a Domina is good and entertaining idea.

I as many of My fellow Domina's have also noticed and discussed, that a wannbe sub who in fact has no real grasp of what D/s is never mimd failing to know the concept of a sub, be this due to low intelligence or just being bitter, it is stil trying. I do try and help subs/slaves to become as good as they can through various way, but I think if the sub has problems that are so deep rooted, as in being rude, having no respect for the Domina or even for themselfs, professional help is what they really need, for a sub/slave to really give submission, it must be given with understanding, respect and caring

If a sub does have probloems but has heart and understanding, then they caan be helped but, if they have only bitterness or self lothing with shows in how they act, not even the best Domina should touch them with a barge pole

just My thoughts

Valk

"But who is stronger, truly, I asked myself, She who continues to wound and bleed Herself to please others, or She who refuses any longer to do so?"

31 May 08, 4:46 PM
Poseidon1
3 yrs
I agree. But what if the sub in question enjoys not being touched with a barge pole?

Edited 1 Jun 08, 12:26 AM by Poseidon1

6 Jun 08, 9:03 PM
page_boy
UK(CR), 6 yrs
Is there no place for topping from the bottom then, is this not a legitimate technique?
6 Jun 08, 9:07 PM
BarbieSlutLoki
UK(E), 6 yrs
page_boy wrote:
Is there no place for topping from the bottom then, is this not a legitimate technique?

Or they could simply be bratty and easily controlled when their Dom/me wants them to be...

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6 Jun 08, 9:18 PM
page_boy
UK(CR), 6 yrs
BarbieSlutLoki wrote:
page_boy wrote:
Is there no place for topping from the bottom then, is this not a legitimate technique?

Or they could simply be bratty and easily controlled when their Dom/me wants them to be...

I want to report this reply post made by BarbieSlutLoki on the Pro-Mistresses etc board on 6 Jun 08, 9:07 PM

It can be hard to tell (from inside). Sometimes I think that it I'm in control of this, no surrender and then.....

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