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subdoug30
Posted by subdoug30 on Wed 7 May 08, 8:12 PM to subdoug30's blog.

I notice a hell of a lot of women on IC grumbling (no doubt fair reason) about the guys contacting them on here (rambling, not reading profiles properly, 1 liner emails, copy & pasting emails to dommes, being moronic etc etc) but ladies it also works both ways !

I have written to several female IC members with coherent, lengthy, but not too lengthy (lets face it you dont want a orsen wells novel for a email ;-) description about myself and what i'm looking for and what i can offer, just to have my email read and no even as much as a 'thanks but no thanks you pathetic worm' (or the likes)

I appreciate that the female members probably get 10-20 times more emails than male IC members but do the logical, sane and normalish (well this is IC) initial emails not even deserve as much as a 'no thanks', and this is emails from female members who are looking for contacts, frineds or otherwise ?

this site confuses me a bit, i know its not a alt.com or friendfinder.com site but there seems very little comms unless you are a munch member (i've just moved so will be in touch with the brighton munch crew). It just gets me down a bit..ahh well , welcome to the real world i guess...

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20 Jun 08, 8:39 AM
Mistressruby
UK(BN), 4 yrs

Ah yes doug a guilty one here, but please remember it's not always rudeness that prevents us from replying immediately. (Don't tell anyone but I'm human too and have those boring mundane tasks to cope with and more besides as a single mum) I try to reply but sometimes open a memo and don't get a chance to reply before it gets deleted by IC. you seem a very respectful guy and thanks for the tactful reminder. Do keep in touch!

Mistress Ruby x

18 Jul 08, 12:25 AM
subdoug30
UK(GU), 7 yrs

Dear Mistress,

point taken and responsibilities & new ventures noted (personal & bdsm), hope to be able to serve you if I can offer anything worthy when you have the time to enjoy it....

yours humbly

sub doug

sub doug

29 Jul 08, 1:15 AM
Original_Rebel
UK(CT), 10 yrs

subdoug30 wrote:
lets face it you dont want a orsen wells novel for a email ;-)

Would be interested to know what novels Orson Wells wrote?

As far as i know he was a film maker ;)

"No wise man ever wished to be younger." Jonathan Swift Irish essayist, novelist, & satirist (1667 - 1745)

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