7 May 08, 9:50 PM Iona_O UK, 5 yrs 
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Mistress_Brahminy wrote:
But as a new member, I have to agree with Starmaine - if there have been expulsions, it would be good to know the reasons or what rules were broken in case I one day find that I might break one too, and find myself excluded.
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I agree. Surely if somebody is to be made an example of by expelling them it would be a good idea to let the other members know the nature of the example that is being made
Appreciate me now and avoid the rush
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7 May 08, 10:17 PM Elysium UK(EH), 5 yrs 
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As one of those who has been ejected from the club (06/07 new year - too much vodka) then welcomed back. For which I am grateful.
I think MsSass was a great addition to the Rebound atmosphere and she made my first few club nights and introduction onto the scene very welcoming, not to mention is great fun at the Ayrshire Munch and generally. As such, I am saddened to see she has been banned with not even the respect or courtesy of an explanation.
I know J and Red do a wonderful job and I appreciate all the effort they go to in making rebound nights so enjoyable. However, it seems unbelievably arrogant to ban someone outright without so much as an explanation. I do not believe for a second that J and Red would have taken this decision lightly. However, surely those who are bearing the brunt of the consequences due to the decision are owed an explanation? I am sure a private one would suffice.
Otherwise, I fear the petty rumour mongers and shit stirrers of the scene will create even more divisions and disharmony than is already present in Scotland. This can only hurt Rebound and the Scottish scene in general.
This hardly effects me. But I am sad to see someone I like and respect treated with such casual abandon. It is clear others are too.
If it could happen to her, it appears, it could happen to any of us.
"I don't know what your destiny will be, but one thing I do know: the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who have sought and found how to serve." - Albert Schweitzer.
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7 May 08, 10:21 PM tongueincheek UK, 5 yrs |
At least the people at Nuremburg got a fair trial! |
8 May 08, 8:42 AM LauraA UK, 4 yrs |
tongueincheek wrote:
At least the people at Nuremburg got a fair trial!
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That's probably not strictly true but at least they were in no doubt what the charges against them were.
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8 May 08, 11:02 PM Mistress_Pagan UK, 4 yrs £
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Mistress_Brahminy wrote:
Senior_Zorro wrote:
Yep but in reality its just two pathetic pro dommes trying to do their best to tout for business at new premises.
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Senior_Zorro...
I'm new to the scene, I love Rebound & I think J & Red do a great job. I don't personally know either of the two people who have been excluded.
But as a new member, I have to agree with Starmaine - if there have been expulsions, it would be good to know the reasons or what rules were broken in case I one day find that I might break one too, and find myself excluded.
All I can say from reading your posts is that if *anyone* is stirring unnecessarily, being nasty, deliberately obscure & generally a totally unreasonable - it's you.
I'm resigned to reading your inevitable sarcastic, bombastic response. It's obvious you can't tolerate reasoned argument or anyone else having the last word.
MB
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Listen when you have the guts to show your face and get some back bone ?then try and call me pathetic .You dont know anything about me .You seem to be nothing but a shit stirring in all my post have i once mentioned a business or has miss sass i didn't even know miss sass had her membership revoked until i seen it on the board so as for two pathetic Dom's trying to drum up buisness. I dont think so i work for myself on my own OK and unlike certain people i have i great client base . There's one thing for sure i can say there ain't any rumors about what i do in the room ??? or Miss Sass.Also can you not afforded a session with a mistress cause you seem to get a kick out of trying to stir trouble with female Dom's is this the only way you can get you kick ??????LOL PS Try spell check LOL bye sure cant see ya and would not like to be ya.Mistress Pagan
Edited 8 May 08, 11:44 PM by Mistress_Pagan
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8 May 08, 11:24 PM new_me_to_see 4 yrs  |
I personally do not know either of the two excluded from the club but as said in the past on a posting are we not all meant to be adults and I agree the reasons for the two exclusions are private and are not or should not be up for public debate or for the purposes of trying to inflame or humiliate any of the members or organisers of the club.
I am public enough to show my face and hope that this will not in anyway affect the club on Sat as said we are adults in a scene we all enjoy and should all use that common link to stop the silly bickering.
I am looking forward to the club and seeing loads there as normal.
Deviant_Mind wrote:
As one of those who has been ejected from the club (06/07 new year - too much vodka) then welcomed back. For which I am grateful.
I think MsSass was a great addition to the Rebound atmosphere and she made my first few club nights and introduction onto the scene very welcoming, not to mention is great fun at the Ayrshire Munch and generally. As such, I am saddened to see she has been banned with not even the respect or courtesy of an explanation.
I know J and Red do a wonderful job and I appreciate all the effort they go to in making rebound nights so enjoyable. However, it seems unbelievably arrogant to ban someone outright without so much as an explanation. I do not believe for a second that J and Red would have taken this decision lightly. However, surely those who are bearing the brunt of the consequences due to the decision are owed an explanation? I am sure a private one would suffice.
Otherwise, I fear the petty rumour mongers and shit stirrers of the scene will create even more divisions and disharmony than is already present in Scotland. This can only hurt Rebound and the Scottish scene in general.
This hardly effects me. But I am sad to see someone I like and respect treated with such casual abandon. It is clear others are too.
If it could happen to her, it appears, it could happen to any of us.
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8 May 08, 11:36 PM MsSass UK(G), 6 yrs £ 
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Mistress_Lorraine wrote:
I personally do not know either of the two excluded from the club but as said in the past on a posting are we not all meant to be adults and I agree the reasons for the two exclusions are private and are not or should not be up for public debate or for the purposes of trying to inflame or humiliate any of the members or organisers of the club.
I am public enough to show my face and hope that this will not in anyway affect the club on Sat as said we are adults in a scene we all enjoy and should all use that common link to stop the silly bickering.
I am looking forward to the club and seeing loads there as normal.
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The reasons are so private only "The Organisers" know them, unless anyone else knows them?? Perhaps they'd like to share that knowledge with me in private via memo or email?
"The Organisers" have refused to do so, despite already being asked privately.
Almost always, the creative dedicated minority has made the world better.
Martin Luther King, Jr.
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9 May 08, 8:11 AM rubbermy 5 yrs |
Hi
There seems to be no valid but only personal for people not to be welcome at club. That was according to one on here that by looks of it seems to have back tracked into the fold. So don,t know who was telling fibs on that occassion!
Anyway its a big world out there other places to go and other things to experience. One club is not the be all and end all
My x Edited 9 May 08, 8:13 AM by rubbermy
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9 May 08, 2:33 PM Saxa_Lady 5 yrs |
Mistress_Pagan wrote:
To Senior_Zorro
Listen when you have the guts to show your face and get some back bone ?then try and call me pathetic .You dont know anything about me .You seem to be nothing but a shit stirring in all my post have i once mentioned a business or has miss sass i didn't even know miss sass had her membership revoked until i seen it on the board so as for two pathetic Dom's trying to drum up buisness. I dont think so i work for myself on my own OK and unlike certain people i have i great client base . There's one thing for sure i can say there ain't any rumors about what i do in the room ??? or Miss Sass.Also can you not afforded a session with a mistress cause you seem to get a kick out of trying to stir trouble with female Dom's is this the only way you can get you kick ??????LOL PS Try spell check LOL bye sure cant see ya and would not like to be ya.
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Oh dear, the ambiguity .... and insinuations ....
I DO know about you and I would certainly not call you pathetic.
Misguided, poisonous and deluded - yes but pathetic, no.
Why don't you get one of your submissives / slaves from your HUGE client base to check what you write before you post, MIGHT save you from coming across as such an illiterate?
Edited to add smiley face to follow the playground rules  Edited 9 May 08, 5:16 PM by Saxa_Lady
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9 May 08, 4:22 PM rubbermy 5 yrs |
starmaine wrote:
rubbermy wrote:
there other places to go and other things to experience. One club is not the be all and end all
My x
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This is true...HOWEVER, it makes for a sticky situation if you can't get in, but your partner can (or visa versa)!!!!!!!
Pagan's Pet, star
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Well if it was me i wouldn,t go if my other half couldn,t get in but if they went without me i,d be wondering whats so important at any club anywhere that they would have a better night without me 
My x
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