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| 3 May 08, 10:40 AM MisterBear UK(WA), 8 yrs    |
What you need is something like these that you can wear for a while as any gasses should escape via the hole down the middle. Democracy. It's not about doing what's best, it's about doing what the biggest bunch of idiots wants. | ||
| 3 May 08, 12:15 PM FionualaHLC UK(RG), 5 yrs  |
I've worn them 10+ hours, including overnight, with no ill effects. Tight panties are a good idea when out and about or when sleeping. I find slippage happens with the smaller jelly type plugs and is normally due to too much lube. It seems less common with more solid plugs. There was a suggestion I once saw here for slippage, use less lube only covering the tip and use saliva on the sides. As for needing to pee for that moves the muscles around there a lot, sit right back on the seat so that the actual seat holds the plug in place. I try to alternate between the different plugs I have and make sure I go back to the smallest plug from time to time, just to make sure the muscles stay tight. Also I've developed a habit of doing exercises like Kegels except using those muscles at the back on a regular basis when not using a plug. Keep up with it. People are right, a week or two is not long in the overall training schedule. Try only using the big one you can't seem to get in when you are really turned on and with lots of lube and the medium one with less lube if it shoots out. Sometimes you have to tighten that ring around it when you move in certain ways, almost gritting your teeth to make it stay in place, but then it settles again. I find the motion of getting in and out of cars and bed the times when a plug is most likely to try to escape for me. Bear with it, sitting and then a little squirm will normally settle it back quickly and bring a smile to your face.
Good luck with the training. | ||
| 3 May 08, 12:27 PM FluffyHotWaterBottle UK(WC), 4 yrs |
Yes, it's nice to wear them overnight.
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| 3 May 08, 12:33 PM FluffyHotWaterBottle UK(WC), 4 yrs |
You need lots and lots of lube. Need to relax - knowing how to do that gets easier. And to stop it shooting out, get one with a big flare. http://www.extremerestraints.com/njoy-steel-butt... These are lovely and come in a nice jewellery box. | ||
| 3 May 08, 6:58 PM MasterG63 6 yrs |
Unless you are a 'Twue Domme' or are suffering from Dominatrix Toxemia....
Then you just think your shit doesnt stink! | ||
| 3 May 08, 7:09 PM RubberPrincess UK(TW), 5 yrs |
Hi there i have successfully slept with a butt plug in i don't think there are any problems with continued wear. Sir quite likes me to wear a butt plug while i am driving or doing household chores etc. Equally i will cook dinner or such whilst retaining an enema so i see no medical reason why you shouldn't keep a butt plug in for extended periods of time. Good luck with your training, as for the medium butt plug keeps coming out i suffer with this occassionally it is becuase you feel like you need a poo so your muscles are contracting if you relax fully it shouldn't do this. Equally don't force the big one keep going with the middle one for a while and work up to the big one. Don't ever rush anal play. xXx DD xXx | ||
| 3 May 08, 7:32 PM TheFallen UK(E), 4 yrs |
Thanks to everybody for the advice. Even those with the less then helpful comments, at least they made me laugh! Is it wrong that i can still fart even when I have a plug without a central hole fully inserted? Seriously though, I guess I have been expecting too much too soon. I will continue to train mainly with the medium plug for a while longer and ease my way gently down the big one. Also I never even thought about using a harness. I think that would be most helpful in keeping things in place. Now I just need to find one. I wonder it lovehoney sells them... | ||
| 4 May 08, 9:04 PM silaster UK, 8 yrs |
My Master used duct tape to tape a plug into me and tape up my cunt. Whilst I enjoyed the feeling of chastity the tape was very uncomfortable around the plug. I kept in all in place in a public restaurant for about 2 hours and then had to head for the bathroom and remove it all. The plug was comfortable after about 20 minutes but the tape was really hard to acclimatise to. It was fun though, although peeling duct tape off your cunt in the ladies toilet is not recommended, it makes alot of noise and I was trying not to yell as it peeled off my cunt lips lol | ||
| 4 May 08, 11:50 PM Eomer_Of_Rohan 5 yrs |
lovehoney have had this on special offer for ages http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=10940 tempted but even £17 is too expensive for that haha "Honesty is the most offensive thing in the world." | ||
| 5 May 08, 1:46 AM Fellatino UK(M), 5 yrs |
Its just a case of relaxation. How big is the one you are having trouble with? Overnight is fun if you can get to sleep! Try wearing the medium overnight as this will help you relax then try the bigger one straight after. |
