positive pro domme experiences (58)

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3 Jul 08, 8:39 PM
electrocbtslave
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29 Jul 08, 10:39 AM
Platinum_man
4 yrs My experiences with Pros have been pretty horrific to be honest.
Sadly they all came onto me and did me for free when I was a teenager it was very indicisive, at time I had no context for my sexuality, no knowledge of any scene, thought a munch was a cannabis thing, I would look on places like here and alt.com to see Pros everywhere going into a state of mania followed with the help of psychiatry a psychosis so acute that I could have ended up in Broadmoor for the rest of my life never mind 1 month in intense care secure unit.
Later over involvement over the years I learnt that there used to be (quote); "loads of Dommes in the scene" that "It's so hard to find a decent sub" that "Dommes aren't in the scene" how utterly pathetic!
Live n learn eh!
Edited 29 Jul 08, 11:53 AM by Platinum_man

16 Nov 08, 11:16 AM
MistressSBlack
UK(LE), 5 yrs
£ Y!

Platinum_man wrote:
My experiences with Pros have been pretty horrific to be honest.
Sadly they all came onto me and did me for free when I was a teenager it was very indicisive, at time I had no context for my sexuality, no knowledge of any scene, thought a munch was a cannabis thing, I would look on places like here and alt.com to see Pros everywhere going into a state of mania followed with the help of psychiatry a psychosis so acute that I could have ended up in Broadmoor for the rest of my life never mind 1 month in intense care secure unit.
Later over involvement over the years I learnt that there used to be (quote); "loads of Dommes in the scene" that "It's so hard to find a decent sub" that "Dommes aren't in the scene" how utterly pathetic!
Live n learn eh!
Its a shame that you feel that way , but i hasten to add , There are good and bad Dominants both pro and non pro ... So i feel that there are good and bad experiences to be had by both . My own thoughts on this are these. 1. Another mans meat is another mans poison 2. How often do you get involved with someone only to find that they are not for you . 3.Does this always resort back to a bad experience? or was this just another learning experience ? 4.It takes a meeting of minds to experience a truly excellent session. 5.Meeting of minds takes place between people how often? 6.i could go on ....but i wont
So as you see,a bad experience is a learning curve and too judge everyone who is a pro top/domme/dom as bad is crazy ..
There are an awful lot of us out there who Love what they do..and are experienced, caring and nurturing .

www.mistress-scarlett-black.com

16 Nov 08, 2:13 PM
Ms_Valentine
UK, 23 mths

MistressSBlack wrote:

Platinum_man wrote:
My experiences with Pros have been pretty horrific to be honest.
Sadly they all came onto me and did me for free when I was a teenager it was very indicisive, at time I had no context for my sexuality, no knowledge of any scene, thought a munch was a cannabis thing, I would look on places like here and alt.com to see Pros everywhere going into a state of mania followed with the help of psychiatry a psychosis so acute that I could have ended up in Broadmoor for the rest of my life never mind 1 month in intense care secure unit.
Later over involvement over the years I learnt that there used to be (quote); "loads of Dommes in the scene" that "It's so hard to find a decent sub" that "Dommes aren't in the scene" how utterly pathetic!
Live n learn eh!
Its a shame that you feel that way , but i hasten to add , There are good and bad Dominants both pro and non pro ... So i feel that there are good and bad experiences to be had by both . My own thoughts on this are these. 1. Another mans meat is another mans poison 2. How often do you get involved with someone only to find that they are not for you . 3.Does this always resort back to a bad experience? or was this just another learning experience ? 4.It takes a meeting of minds to experience a truly excellent session. 5.Meeting of minds takes place between people how often? 6.i could go on ....but i wont
So as you see,a bad experience is a learning curve and too judge everyone who is a pro top/domme/dom as bad is crazy ..
There are an awful lot of us out there who Love what they do..and are experienced, caring and nurturing .

Don't worry about platinum man, he is/was a troll of the biggest order.
Controversial views of Ms_Valentine. No 1. Slaves submit no more deeply than subs can do. No 2. Terms such as a 'sub' or a 'slave' describe a state of being, not a level of submission, importance or place in a hierarchy. 3. Submission?.. no limits necessary.

28 Nov 08, 10:43 AM
chacane
UK(CF), 3 yrs
I have been very lucky with the Mistress who I have been seeing for the last 3 years. She is a real star and I think I am besotted with her to the extent that I would not even think about going elsewhere.
Only being able to visit every 4 - 6 weeks is a strain and I will admit to fantasising about her almost every day, which is very stimulating but frustrating.
"The roots may be bitter but the fruits are sweet"

28 Nov 08, 7:24 PM
Powder_Hound
UK(BL), 22 mths

The vast majority of my sessions with Pro-Dommes have been fantastic experiences. With one lady I saw for a while, we would get one hit in about 4 misses, but the hits were so good ... When I leave ... Exhausted, mentaly drained, bits of me aching, rapidly my cheeks hurt from smiling from the buzz, in love ...

28 Nov 08, 11:41 PM
rubberscot
UK(G), 4 yrs

My previous experiences with a pro-domme were all with the same Mistress, however I had gotten to know her for a while before our first session (it became a service exchange thing, sessions for website development) and we knew we had similar interest so things clicked, however tomorrow I will be visiting a new Mistress for the first time (which incidentally will be the first time I pay for a session).
So it will be interesting to see how it goes. I'll report back tomorrow.
Only smarties have the answer

24 Dec 08, 3:43 PM
twistedwimp
UK(NE), 7 yrs
Well I have seen maybe 10 different Pro-Dommes and I guess three or four of them more than once and one in particular more than that. Out of the 10 I only saw one that I would term amateur and came away from regretting going anywhere near she was pretty useless but you put it down to experience and move on. There will always be good and bad my experience is that there are more good than bad and I have had some quite thrilling excursions and am full of praise you find a Pro-Domme who knows her stuff and feel the difference.
Rgds
Look towards the sunshine and the shadows will fall behind you.


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