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When you first joined the world of BDSM... (58)

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20 May 08, 7:30 PM
razyplaits
UK(PE), 4 yrs
being tied to a cross now i like the idea!
20 May 08, 7:52 PM
Mistress_Avralivia
UK(RG), 4 yrs
£
Number_3 wrote:
Wearing a collar - I can still remember the first time it was fastened around my neck and I thought I would pass out. No, it wasn't too tight, I just realised the gravity of the situation, the power of the dynamic and how very challenging the paradox of letting go was for me.

Now I feel bereft when it comes off - c'est la vie.

Me too, something I never thought id feel a real affinity for. i used to hate the feel of anything around my neck, felt restrictive, tight like I couldnt breathe.

And now...

If i could feasably wear Masters collar every hour of every day now I would...

I walked out of the house this morning wearing my collar, had to mutter under my breath walk back in, kneel on the kicthen floor, take it off, kiss it goodbye, and leave the house feeling narky as hell at the society that made me have to take it off.

I dont need a collar to feel like Masters slavegirl, and it is *only* a training collar, but to me its such a huge comfort, something that gives me pleasure just to feel its reassuring hold on my neck.

"Dance like nobody's watching; love like you've never been hurt. Sing like nobody's listening; live like it's heaven on earth."

20 May 08, 7:59 PM
firemynx_B
UK(B), 11 yrs

Needles believe it or not :)

Hoods

sensory deprivation

Electrics

Knives

Now I actually like them all ........ ALOT :)

"Dear Santa ........ I can explain!"

20 May 08, 7:59 PM
goldengirrl
UK(S), 4 yrs
Will_and_ella wrote:
Anal sex and nipple torture.

I now cannot live without them ;)

Exx

and to add to that needles have not explored these yet not sure i want to but hey im just a cowardly custard kind

20 May 08, 8:04 PM
Mrs_Smith
6 yrs
Viskan wrote:
When you first joined the world of BDSM...

<< snip >>

What was it that you thought that you would never do or enjoy when you first started to play?

V.

everything.

But after two years, I have found that there is a lot I absolutely love, a bit that is on my no-way list and a huge list of I would love to try please list.

20 May 08, 8:09 PM
golfmebackwards
UK(SO), 6 yrs

Needles and nettles though i think i will have to experience them both at some time in the future,which i am steeling myself for!! There must be something else though i cant think of it at the moment,whats the betting it will begin with N ??????

I'm so glad that this has taken me so long,
Coz its the journey thats made me so strong.

20 May 08, 8:13 PM
subzerome
6 yrs
I've been fairly astonished myself, by how many things I considered to be limits, that I now would consider. It's probably been one of the most shocking things I've discovered so far!

Violet wands – I was pretty repulsed by the thought, but after LAM I realised they're actually kinda nice! Looks like I'll be subjected to a lot of it in the near future!

I'm vaguely mulling over the idea of needle play now too!

I'm really discovering a lot about myself, I think being with someone who makes you feel safe to explore things makes so much difference!

~V

20 May 08, 8:20 PM
Kapital
UK(NW), 4 yrs

If these were hard limits, was it all about setting a foundation of trust in place? And would the Dom/me would slowly push these limits as the relationship became tighter over time?

Clem Attlee was the man.

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