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| 2 May 08, 6:14 PM SweetnessAndLight UK(DH), 4 yrs   |
Bollocks you are... Oh! I'm sorry Sir, thought that was an order.
Be gentle with me....but not too gentle. Edited 2 May 08, 6:25 PM by SweetnessAndLight | ||
| 2 May 08, 7:54 PM Eomer_Of_Rohan 5 yrs |
I did. "Honesty is the most offensive thing in the world." | ||
| 2 May 08, 8:12 PM Ariane 8 yrs |
All absolutes are false. It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything. | ||
| 3 May 08, 10:45 AM Missdeed UK, 5 yrs |
ppl wanting to know and be with you id call love rather than romance...romance is the soppy stuff i like to think i can do without..but love, i think most of us want that swx | ||
| 3 May 08, 11:39 AM pixie_sub 4 yrs |
Uh huh so do i! There is such as thing as romance in my r/ship (well most of the time) and it suits us just fine.I dont think i'd be able to cope with a relationship without a softer side. xxx That which nourishes me also destroys me... | ||
| 3 May 08, 11:45 AM janiya 8 yrs |
I would never have referred to Thomas as being a 'tradional romantic' but he was at times in his own way romantic. Picking the first spring flowers, placing them in between the pages of a book and posting me the book (before we lived in the same country). I'm very romantic person, prolly enough for the pair of us back then. 'Only the one that hurts you can make you feel better Only the one that inflicts pain can take it away' - Madonna, Erotica | ||
| 5 May 08, 11:35 AM MasterJohnRC HK, 4 yrs |
To own a girl A Master needs to entice the mind bind the heart own the soul thereafter, the body comes along willingly If you take romance out of any relationship, BDSM or vanila, there is NOTHING there, just a ghost of the past, JC Edited 5 May 08, 11:36 AM by MasterJohnRC | ||
| 5 May 08, 12:33 PM silaster UK, 8 yrs |
I am a slave and not romantic at all, yet my Master is. Not in the hearts and flowers sense, that would drive me insane, but in the way he acts towards me. In my mind there is romance in the way someone looks at you or treats you when out and about around vanilla people. He held a chair for me in a restaurant the other night, it was such an unexpected gesture that I was slightly overwhelmed. It was romantic because at other times I sit down after him and need permission to enter/leave a room. I guess it depends on what you consider romance, for me it is those unexpected gestures that show someone cares.
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| 5 May 08, 3:00 PM bootssub UK(G), 7 yrs |
It is nice to sweep a Mistress off her feet, rather than be tied down and abused all the time plus relief for a sore botty. As she feels very happy and enjoys the idea of what she considers and expects as romance with her submissive partner. Does this not help each other in a Mistress/sub relationship? bootssub x sub-u-like. Gentle inside, gentle outside and gentle in nature! | ||
| 7 May 08, 8:12 PM skylerpet 4 yrs |
i think romance is important in any intimate relationship. And i believe that romance is another 2 way street. Whomever said that male don't like to receive surprise gifts doesn't have a beating heart in their chest. Especially when their is true love involved quite frankly has lost their mind. Any relationship needs to be nurtured, as do the participants no matter how many or how few. However, romance does not always mean flowers and candle lit dinners. Romance is often the little things. A cute message on the dry erase board in the kitchen, bringing supper home when you know your partner has had one of "those" days. Romance can be so many things and whomever said "romance is dead" well... i'll leave it at that. http://thiscatsmeow.bravehost.com/ http://kittypetskyler.wordpress.com/ ~~~~ Master allows me my posting privileges. He will deny and/or completely remove them as He sees fit. ~~~~ |
