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IC : Weblogs : Checkers : "Missed The Bus"

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Posted by Checkers on Mon 21 Apr 08, 2:21 PM

Missed The Bus!!!

Friday 10th April, 1998…..a Good Friday I believe….but who cares? It turned out to be my good Friday!! Going over to Bristol to visit a friend in hospital, a few days before the 1oth,, I saw the bus go sailing past. Damn it…another 15 or 2o minutes to wait in the rain for the next one? No way…there was a petrol station that had a good selection of top shelf mags in there, so why not pop in and have a read? Good for short stories was “Forum” with the latest issue on the shelf. I can't remember the story I read but I do remember having a flick through the adverts. There was an ad that jumped out at me coz it had Bristol mentioned in it. A Dominatrix wanting a slave to decorate Her new dungeon. Hmmm….I wondered. What is that about? It would have to be another couple of days before I made the decision to find out. Back to the shop with pen and paper, I took note of the phone number, then straight home again to 'phone up before any doubts crept into my head. Till then I had not been involved in the scene apart from my own fantasies. I don't know how I sounded on the 'phone, but Mistress S had time for me and told me that I should meet Her at Her new premises the following Friday. How I passed the interview I don't know, I think it was because I may have been seen as a challenge to Her, to bring this sub under control. I had been in the building trade and was accustomed to giving the client a run down on how a job should be done. There I stood telling the Mistress how things should be done, perhaps not the best way to start a Domme/sub relationship!!! The following week I was to be there to start the work. Mistress S arrived duly late with the first of the materials to do the work. As the premises were not yet occupied I was given instructions on what She expected me to do that day and then left me to get on with my task. Diligently I got down to following the instructions with the adage “the customer is always right” in my head. I also had time to wonder what I was doing this for. After a few days of doing as my Mistress wanted I was to find out. Mistress S told me that I should be at her existing dungeon one afternoon for my payment. As Mistress S put it my payment was to “be in kind”. Mistress S had found out through our conversations that I had an interest in the cane, and so it was that for the first time since school I was to receive my payment. Not a cold caning but a well warmed bottom with hand and tawse. And so it was to be for the next six years. Our Domme/sub relationship blossomed. I was always willing to do as Mistress S wished me to do. Looking after Her dungeon equipment, shopping for and ironing clothes for Her paying clients, keeping Her play spaces clean and being on hand should She require me there for special requests from Her clients. During this period I did not get involved with the “social” side of the scene such as going to munches, SWAMP in Bristol or private parties. These were to follow when after, as the saying goes, “all good things come to an end”. It took me about a year after my last assignment for Mistress S to pull myself together and venture along to my first Bristol munch. Through the munch I have met several good friends, and have had the ability to go to other events which I had never dreamt of. Thank goodness for the rainy days we have to endure!!!!

 
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