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| Sat 5 Apr 08, 2:59 AM GoGoCherryD UK, 4 yrs |
Is there the need and or requirement of a dom/mes assistant. Or is this usually taken by a second or trainee dom/me? I like the idea of watching and helping a dom/me with their duties, maybe like work experience: passing the instruments of torture, ensuring the sub behaves, moping a brow or two, but never actually having contact with the sub. I would love to hear your opinions. |
| 5 Apr 08, 9:50 AM Ms_Tytania 6 yrs |
First of all, having a third person in the premises is illegal. We all know it happens, though. But I suppose that people who'd like an assistant, trainee Domme, sub etc, with them, would choose among the people they already know, or someone recommended. This is not meant as a personal criticism to anyone. The majority of dommes I know are also small and independent in their enterprise (like me) and don't need branching out like that. The image of imposing dungeons with people coming in and out and clients queuing up all day is a myth, unless you are based, perhaps, in London's Soho. Cultivate your inner whore Edited 5 Apr 08, 9:51 AM by Ms_Tytania |
| 7 Apr 08, 12:34 AM GoGoCherryD UK, 4 yrs |
Thank you for the response. I thought that was probably the case. I suppose I had the image of the myth you described. To tell you the truth it makes more sense that you would work with someone you knew. Thanks again. GG |
