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| Wed 2 Apr 08, 2:00 PM Agent_Lustily_Smith UK(CH), 5 yrs   |
I know there have probably been lots of posts on this before but there is a particular fantasy I've got that is due to become a reality this Thursday, all things being well (http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/weblogs/maeden_... it is something that although the idea turns me on, I'm quite nervous about, especially the watersports bit, and I was wondering if people who have turned fantasies that they are nervous about into a reality had found it as exciting and frightening as they initially thought they would be? I really want to be able to do this and have it not be a problem and I know that the Domly one feels the same way. So any thoughts or advice would be greatfully received. | |
| 2 Apr 08, 2:41 PM NiceToMice 4 yrs |
The fantasies that you feel nervous about are the best, making them a reality is raw excitement, fulfilling and darkly beautiful. In my opinion developing and enacting fantasy is fucking for the brain, well as long as no one dies... A racing heart, dryness in your mouth, coldness down your spine, nausea and excitement that brings on a cold sweat. The knowledge that this is going to happen to you, that you are going to do this, I hope you go there on weak legs, so nervous that you can hardly speak… Good news for people who love bad news | |
| 2 Apr 08, 4:24 PM PortionsForFoxes UK(SE), 5 yrs |
I plan to, asap and will definitely be writing a report on it. Yes, I'm rather antsy about it too. "Perhaps I am a bad, inconstant woman..." | |
| 4 Apr 08, 4:57 PM Lovelace UK(LS), 4 yrs |
I am always worried that if I live out my fantasies I won't have anything left to fantasise about ! How would I get myslef off then ?? Lol. Choozy. x One day my ship will come in, and knowing my luck, I'll be at the airport !! | |
| 4 Apr 08, 6:57 PM Peccavi 4 yrs |
Yes ............. AND??? Every woman adores a fascist - Sylvia Plath | |
| 4 Apr 08, 8:14 PM just_m UK(BS), 5 yrs |
Maeden Bach, how wonderful you are using BDSM to fulfill your deepest fantasies...this is exactly the journey I have chosen to embark on. And sometimes my fantasies seem too scary and too...taboo...to realize. That is when creating a safe and trusting environment comes in where I am able to come as close as anything to what normally stays hidden away for a life time...how sad would this be? Through living out our fantasies, through exploring our darkest dreams, we understand ourselves! Of course you are afraid, of course you are nervous but isn't that part of the excitement? Slowly, hesitantly, nervously I'm stepping through new territory, opening up new doors...just this week I did something that I could have only dreamed of in my darkest nights...I was so scared that I trembled, my body was out of control and in His hands...I came out the other end and for the last days I've been walking on clouds. Maeden Bach, you are at the beginning of a fascinating journey, enjoy! xx | |
| 4 Apr 08, 9:19 PM Elven_Eyes UK, 5 yrs |
I've recently begun exploring a fantasy of mine and my lover's: having me seduce a younger man. I've had Prince Charming over to mine and snogged him on the bed a few times. I was scared to death when I first had him over- not because I was scared of him, but crossing the line seemed like such a big deal. Now, every time I get him alone and press him against the wall, I can see the fear and lust in his eyes, as he wonders if my lover really doesn't mind. And It is delicious. I never thought I'd make a third person fantasy a reality, even such a tame one. It was too scary. I suggest you start small, and build slowly up to the ultimate fantasy. It's working for me. Last time I got good ole Prince Charming to feel my tits. His face was priceless. I can't wait to get my hand down his trousers. "The chaperon is there to make sure no one else has any fun, but nobody chaperons the chaperon. That's why I'm so right for this job." -Jane Russell as Dorothy Shaw, "Gentlemen Prefer Blondes" | |
| 4 Apr 08, 9:23 PM Agent_Lustily_Smith UK(CH), 5 yrs |
It has hopefully been rescheduled to tomorrow night, as we found a flaw in the plan last night, appearantly watersports are difficult to do with a hard on, according to the Alien man anyways. So we had lots of fun last night, but the fantasy has been changed and rescheduled. Role on tomorrow night... | |
| 4 Apr 08, 9:47 PM Snowpard 4 yrs |
That was a beautiful statement -- I couldn't have worded it better myself. Damn it made me go all goosebumpy! lol.
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| 7 Apr 08, 2:19 PM Agent_Lustily_Smith UK(CH), 5 yrs |
Okay, so the collar and lead part of the fantasy was done on Thursday and the watersports part of the fantasy was done on Saturday. Both were lots of fun, but I've done collar and lead stuff before so I wasn't really nervous about that, but I haven't done watersports before, so I was very nervous, but excited too, when I was kneeling in front of HomesickAlien I felt so very submissive it is definitely something we both want to do again. I am hoping that the hot wax part of my fantasy will take place tomorrow night. However having Sunday lunch with HsA and his dad was much more nerve wracking than any of the BDSM stuff we've done. Thank you all for the replies, the nerves definitely worked for me and not against me on Saturday night. | |
| 7 Apr 08, 2:39 PM Mistress_Avralivia UK(RG), 4 yrs £ |
Some of my fantasies are way too dark and dangerous to be made into a relaity, the rest are fair game i think lol "Dance like nobody's watching; love like you've never been hurt. Sing like nobody's listening; live like it's heaven on earth." |
