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| 22 Apr 09, 2:22 PM prettyLegs 3 yrs |
I used to be taken, by a married man, to his house -at first for sex and later, to develop what I would certainly call a cuckold situation. I went because she clearly was used to this and didn't mind. She'd be cooking the breakfast, and we;d roll down the stairs, him flagrantly flirting and kissing me. Sitting on his knee whil he virtually ignored her was a tremendous rush for me, certainly for them i think!
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| 22 Apr 09, 2:31 PM spirifer UK, 6 yrs  |
Wot about a pair of identical twins, one homosexual, the other heterosexual? ETA the missing "o"... The state has no business in the bedrooms of the nation - Pierre Trudeau | ||
| 22 Apr 09, 3:18 PM MissKB UK(CF), 4 yrs  |
Just thought I would mention that quite a while before I became aware of 'BDSM' I was very aware of cuckoldry. However, my experience had always been more to do with pleasuring the female partner (almost always the wife) and the husband taking great delight in helping her to prepare for her 'dates'. He then taking great tormented delight in imagining what she was doing whilst he waited at home, cleaning, working etc. Then further pleasure in hearing about her exploits, even intense pride in the fact that other men found her so desirable but she always came home to him. Some men finding it THE best aphrodisaic possible. I understand that the BDSM slant is more steeped in humiliation and obviously control via the D/s dynamic.
I have been led to believe that aspects of it were prevelant in Roman times with a rich female having many males to service her needs... her husband for status, lovers to satisfy carnal desires, houseboys to maintain the home and to faun over with her female companions whilst being served drinks etc... How much of it is true I have no idea... but it definitely appeals to me | ||
| 22 Apr 09, 5:26 PM CuckoldressSought UK(LS), 3 yrs |
Tremendous to finally have such a substantial thread about cuckoldry - and to investigate its sexual reversal...Sadly the porn site / inter-racial / cream-pie nonsense offers very little of the way it is PERFECTLY described by MissKB.
As a submissive man, I tend to consider it far more loaded and effective when instigated by the woman; In my previous experiences I would collude of course - and rather than staying in after having bathed / dressed my Domme for her outings (which IS superb, yes..!) would accompany her to find her desired one. We'd introduceourselves as friends or relatives etc. to observe the unfolding flirting and mutual seduction AND going home with it in full swing is a positively TOXIC buzz of pride and humiliation. And then sleeping in an adjacent room...Stunning: but therein lies a problem for some dominant women; the sub male can be seen to be orchestrating the events for too much self-pleasure; similarly a feminist perspective censures this activity by pointing out it reinforces the woman as 'slut' etc. Another reason why it should always be the Dominant woman who instigates and corrals maximum pleasure!
(And I am available of course..! )
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| 17 Jun 09, 10:55 AM straight_lad_trainer 3 yrs |
do give us some details sublima. |
