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| 11 Mar 08, 1:00 PM ideviate UK(M), 12 yrs   |
I'm not a parent, but, sexuality is such a varied thing these days, surely we owe it to our children who are more than likely to be diverse or to experiment in one way or another to re-inforce positive views of sexualities that are colourful, or expressive or just different. "We are bits of stellar matter that got cold by accident, bits of star gone wrong" | ||
| 11 Mar 08, 1:10 PM Masters_Delight UK(WD), 5 yrs |
You dont love a girl because of her beauty. You love her because she sings a song only you can understand.x | ||
| 11 Mar 08, 3:01 PM untamedwildchild UK(SS), 5 yrs |
i have followed this thread from the beginning, was totally gob smacked by the origional post, and i have sat here and thought and thought about it all......would i want to be in a club where a person who held the origional views went....i am not too sure i would. i am still umming and arring about it now. i know later on in the thread she got down to some nitty gritty details...but even so...can you trust someone who states its akin to abuse to have whips and floggers and what not laying around. It may seem like a far fetched thing to be worrying about something like that...or then again...is it considering?????? edited to add a couple of words that i missed Edited 11 Mar 08, 3:02 PM by untamedwildchild | ||
| 11 Mar 08, 3:05 PM sirguym UK(HR), 6 yrs |
I suspect that it is not a minor fraction of the population. I think the numbers are significant, though whether it is 5% or 75% really depends on how you define it. Absolutely we should be telling young people about it. But we 'in the scene' generally don't, because they'll talk about it to their school chums and we'll be branded 'perverts'. But IMHO it does far more harm to a kid growing up thinking he is the only cross-dresser, the only gay, the only one into being tied up, than hearing about it, if he or she were never going to be interested anyway. But the uptight folk think that we will 'put ideas in children's heads' and encourage kids to develop kinks, that they otherwise would never develop an interest in. As if anybody needed to! This idea that no child is ever violent, abusive, sexually aware or active, that they are all sweetness and light, has never brought up real kids ... Academy Incorporated: turning fantasy into reality Miss Prim's Muir Academy, Muir Academy For Maids, The Academy Club and The Tawsingham Society: fast friendly, helpful, discreet service, with integrity www.tawse.com www.muir-academy.com guy@tawse.com PO Box 135, Hereford, HR2 7WL, UK +44(0)143 | ||
| 11 Mar 08, 3:16 PM NiceToMice 4 yrs |
Thanks for this, I seriously agree… I was subjected to years of psychological abuse by my hetro vanilla parents, growing up non hetro in a household where your parents are vociferous homophobes can be a terrifying experience... It took me years to work out that they were the ones with the problem, stuck in their conformist roles and terrified that anyone would see them as being in anyway different from the norm... From my point of view this is another reason why sex education should encompass all kinds of sexual diversity...
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| 11 Mar 08, 7:25 PM Supernanny 6 yrs |
You'd stay away from a club because someone held different views to you? Perhaps you'd be better off never going out. "Like Mary Poppins but common as muck" Edited 11 Mar 08, 7:26 PM by Supernanny | ||
| 11 Mar 08, 8:54 PM Masters_Delight UK(WD), 5 yrs |
You dont love a girl because of her beauty. You love her because she sings a song only you can understand.x | ||
| 11 Mar 08, 8:58 PM SemiTrainedApe UK, 4 yrs |
I'd quite like to force it down someone's throat. That's me at my *most* open n honest!
I'll fiddle for the punters if you clean my cage. | ||
| 11 Mar 08, 9:16 PM MischieviousMarko 4 yrs |
Its my favourite part of foreplay too !!
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| 11 Mar 08, 9:31 PM Supernanny 6 yrs |
I just knew I shoulda been a sub!!! "Like Mary Poppins but common as muck" |
