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| 4 Mar 08, 10:54 PM Sorceror UK(HU), 9 yrs  |
I think mind fucking is rarely satisfactory. People don't usually have large enough nostrils for a start. S.....x. | |
| 5 Mar 08, 1:01 AM Diablos_patience UK, 6 yrs |
Alot of guy's on here have small enough dicks though ~* If you never try anything new, you'll miss out on so many of life's great disappointments! *~ | |
| 5 Mar 08, 1:04 AM condemned UK(M), 11 yrs  |
..........or for some it might fuck some sense into them,lol! | |
| 5 Mar 08, 2:58 PM The_Counsellor UK(WA), 5 yrs |
Yes and not just in mental play! Its not so hard to push somebodies limits, but getting them back, guaranteed, takes self awareness, and a good knowledge of the subs inner landscape. Playing with trust can be very rewarding for both parties, and it builds trust. If it goes wrong it can be relationship and more importantly person wrecking. The Counsellor Kink Friendly Counselling and Therapy Let me help you to be the best you that you can be | |
| 5 Mar 08, 5:05 PM Phrixus UK(ST), 5 yrs |
This thread has taught me a lot! Makes for some very interesting reading!  | |
| 6 Mar 08, 1:47 AM littleonejust4you UK, 4 yrs |
am loving the mindfucks in my new-ish relationship - the experience is heightened as am not yet 100% sure when he is fucking with my mind or not! | |
| 6 Mar 08, 3:21 PM LibidinousQuean 4 yrs |
As always with D/s it's a sliding scale... my Master had me tied and blindfolded and gagged and hooded, then told me he was going to leave for a while... i get terrified of being left... but turns out he didn't leave at all (i thought he did) just wanted to be there to watch me lose control of myself. I trust him 100% but there's still something not quite certain if he threatens to do something to me i really don't want, whether he'll actually do it or not. Although, as we get deeper and deeper my limits become less and less; so although I'm still terrified if he does carry out his threats i would still be his, and proud to be so. | |
| 9 Mar 08, 12:44 PM JustBecky 5 yrs |
Although there are other ways, mind fucks are the easiest and quickest way to make me feel comfortable and get me into sub-space and when tehy are done well, by god are they effective.
I've often found that when a play session leaves me feeling flat or unforfilled it's lacking in the mindfuck. The fear is such an important factor, and it's kinda scary loosing complete control. It's werid feeling yourself drift away and then loosing control over your head. But I love it and the day after is a day to boast about, I always get this magical feeling of euphoria and it leaves me on top of the world. Some people have the nack, others don't and others just need to read! It's an amazing feeling and I love it...As do many other people. I guess though it could be easily abused with the wrong person. Trust and saftey is the key again..I guess. Becky xxx | |
| 11 Mar 08, 10:04 PM Only1Sooty 4 yrs |
I agree totally. To threaten a sub with something extreme at the beginning of a relationship has the potential to be extremely dangerous psychologically. I believe a mindfuck is the D/s equivilent of a sadist taking a bottom up to, and then slightly over, the bottom's edge of endurance. The edges are pushed, but never to the point of being damaging. And if all goes well, those edges can be pushed a little further the next time. If a sadist were to take a bottom too far beyond their edge into the realms of not-fun pain, especially in a new relationship, it's likely that the bottom would not be keen to play with that person again. Mindfucks, I believe, test edges of mental endurance, levels of trust, and depth of submission. They offer a creative dominant a challenge to see how far a sub would be prepared to go to please them. But if a sub were pushed too far beyond those edges, instead of testing trust, it could destroy it. However, stepping just a little over that line can take a scene into the place where the magic really starts to happen, heightening the friction between the sub's instincts for self-preservation, and their desire to obey. And once that edge has been established, it can be pushed a little further the next time. For a mindfuck to work, I think there has to be a certain level of trust and submission to push beyond. Like riding a rollercoaster, you have to trust that the ride is safe and well maintained. It can be scary as hell despite that, but without that base level of trust, you wouldn't go anywhere near the thing. ~ ~ Sooty Boy "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away." Edited 12 Mar 08, 6:53 AM by Only1Sooty |
