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| 3 Mar 08, 11:18 PM Degenerate  UK(M), 5 yrs    |
it depends where I am and who I am playing with. with most people never. with my primary partner it probably does half the time involve sex (as in sexual torment, tease and denial), but I am stone (untouchable) - she is a slave, so allowing her access is all wrong to me. De Roses are red, bruises are blue, masochists are sweet, and I love you. Edited 3 Mar 08, 11:21 PM by Degenerate | |
| 3 Mar 08, 11:26 PM De_Baal UK(EC), 4 yrs  |
Does someone else have to be present? At least an onanist is fairly guaranteed to have sex with someone they love?!?!  | |
| 4 Mar 08, 12:07 AM MotorizedTopHat 5 yrs |
When having BDSM fantasies do they neccesserily involve penetration? When someone is having penetrative sex while in their mind fantasising about BDSM do they fantasize about penetration? Is the penetration in this case on a par with for example masturbation in which one fantasises about BDSM? Is it possible to act out your sexual fantasies without penetration, of course it is. Especially if the fantasy doesn't involve penetration. A blow job, 69 or hand job arent penetration. My Dom/sadist fantasies dont neccesserily always involve penetration, it really depends. I think penetration might be over-rated, although still part of. | |
| 4 Mar 08, 1:02 AM Tara_Red UK(B), 5 yrs £ |
Playing with play friends no, but in a relationship then often I would hope for some sort of sexual play at the end or part of a scene - but for many subs I bet they're like me, it's rather nice to be 'taken' by your dom once in a while - | |
| 4 Mar 08, 1:17 AM FetishJess UK(BN), 5 yrs |
In private, pretty much every single time. In public, I just get frustrated and want to be in private! www.fetiqueuk.com www.brightonfab.com http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AhKU-tmSQR8 | |
| 4 Mar 08, 5:54 AM SueMtv UK(NG), 7 yrs |
I used to look for it but not so much now. | |
| 4 Mar 08, 7:38 AM bloodlineS UK(SK), 8 yrs |
Lol. Thanks for the replies, all. | |
| 4 Mar 08, 8:23 AM Mr_Bone UK(CB), 6 yrs |
Once. http://groups.msn.com/SYNDICAOSSUORUM | |
| 4 Mar 08, 9:04 AM Jayed UK(S), 9 yrs |
Almost never nowadays. When I lived with a female partner who was a sub to me it was always. Now I mostly sub to male Tops out of preference and am not inclined to have sex with them. The intense pleasure of the pain, the mental rush and the deep inner bliss it leads to is quite enough for me. Though, sometimes I please myself, and the occasional female playing sub to me (or fellow sub playing to a visiting Top) can end in sex, though not always penetrative penis-vagina sex. http://jayedmeade.livejournal.com/
jayed | |
| 4 Mar 08, 9:36 AM syndeetoo UK(WC), 6 yrs |
Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaal, you live and learn she said in astonishment. absit invidia verbo |
