Moan moan moan moan moan (5)

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Posted by wicked_lady on Fri 29 Feb 08, 8:51 AM

What is it with submissive's, (or fantasists) and the time you seem to like to waste, is it a past time to see if you can get info out of a domme . To set up arrangements to meet, then not come at the last min, so plans fall through, do we all not have better things to do than to pander to your fantasies. Which is what they seem to be, I know it takes a lot to walk into a domme domain, and I understand that, but to simply ignore her text or messages then that has no excuse, this is such a long running moan about people wasting time of dommes and I'm sure we just wish you would be honest, and if loose it then tell us especially when your in consideration for poss. personal sub/partner. We do have lives to live and often arrange things for the meet, and this then serves as a complete waste of my time and other dommes time. I could be peeling potatoes, washing my hair, painting the carpet with nail varnish , in stead of having coffee with you, much more rewarding most of the time I'm sure. Just play sane, and let us know instead of ignoring us all the time, we are not ogres, well not most of us anyway, and if loose the bottle or change your mind just have the bottle to write a message to us or ring us,, what is the harm in that, eh! End of moan,,,,,,,,,,,, goes of to peel the potatoes

Edited Fri 29 Feb 08, 11:18 AM by wicked_lady

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29 Feb 08, 9:02 AM
Mz_Lucinda_Doys
UK, 3 yrs
£ Y!
They get scared that THEY might have to peel the potatoes.
Mind you some of the excuses from those that do cancel are a bit far fetched.
I half suspect its the same subs that just do the rounds and do it to other Dommes.
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29 Feb 08, 9:07 AM
dementia_von_gurth
11 mths
looks like we've been rumbled the game is up ... its time to confess ... for some time now subs have been playing sub-sport with dommes.
its payback .. subs got tired of up their own arses dommes, the world revolves around me dommes, ooh i've got so many subs and applications aren't i wonderful dommes, and dommes who just don't have a clue what its about dommes .... or my all time favourites .. the tribute mistress ....
so we reap what we sew .. the subs are taking over !
save the cheerleader save the world ..... Hiro Nakamura

29 Feb 08, 11:18 AM
wicked_lady
14 mths
now isnt it the up your own arse subs not dommes, it has been in my overall view of things ie but plugs, carrots, cucumbers, etc,, more fun that way dont you think,,

29 Feb 08, 12:30 PM
Surreysearcher61
UK(SM), 19 mths
Y! Sorry to hear of yet another no show.It is also in my experience vanilla singles and couples and tv's who do the same thing.If I was nearer this loyal sub would have jumped at the chance to come and serve you to replace the missing one.
Edited 29 Feb 08, 12:31 PM by Surreysearcher61

7 Mar 08, 10:32 PM
Plinth_For_Her_Feet
UK, 7 yrs

Sorry to hear you are having this problem with no-shows. But I do think you are completely wrong in assuming this is a "male sub trait". We ALL have problems with timewasters, including the male subs ourselves.
Trouble is, with the internet allowing global access to personal ads on sites like this, the curious-but-unsure will far too easily drift onto here from time to time claiming to be, and even imagining themselves to be, all sorts of things they are not - then panicking and getting cold feet as reality approaches. In that respect things were actually much better back in the slow old days of contact magazines and snail-mail.
And of course female dominants will see the most and the worst of it, simply because of the greater volume of email traffic you receive compared to everyone else.
But please don't be too disheartened. Over time I think we all develop our own "bullshit filters" to weed-out the dreamers and wannabes before we get suckered-in. And you seem an intelligent lady so I'm sure you will too.
When you think about it, far from timewasting being a typical "male sub trait", any man with genuine submissive feelings for women would *HATE* to let a lady down if it can be avoided. I know I'm very far from alone in feeling that way myself.
So please keep your spirits up, and I hope you soon find the sincerity you seek.
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