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Bisexual…nil poit? (84)

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25 Feb 08, 8:00 PM
Elven_Eyes
UK, 5 yrs
Funny thing, this. I like nude art, I love to draw women naked, and a lot of people think that means I'm bi. I have snogged 2 women, both times to impress a man that was in the room. It did work!

When a (female) bi friend of mine tried to grope me I was incredibly put off. Also, I find woman on woman porn boring at best, a turn off at worst.

So, not sexually bi. I think women are beautiful aesthetically and I like to see them get shagged- by men. mff threesomes bore me as well- although the idea of fmm threesomes are incredibly erotic to me.

My love has asked me if I'd be sexual with a woman for him. I'd like to say yes, but honestly, it just wouldn't work.

"The chaperon is there to make sure no one else has any fun, but nobody chaperons the chaperon. That's why I'm so right for this job." -Jane Russell as Dorothy Shaw, "Gentlemen Prefer Blondes"

25 Feb 08, 8:22 PM
augusta
UK, 8 yrs
*waves at tope*

And here was me thinking I was the only straight in the village!

There are three sorts of people in this world: those who can count, and those who can't.

25 Feb 08, 8:34 PM
lili
UK, 12 yrs
Purrverse wrote:

I'll add, though, that identifying as bi is still awkward- while it's more acceptable, it also comes with the beliefs that you're slutty, non-monogamous, and up for anything.

Oh - and don't forget these accusations, too: "greedy", "fickle" (as in can't make your mind up) and, best of all, "disease ridden"!

All in all i think the BDSM scene gives the impression of being more heavily populated with bisexual women, where i think what is actually happening is an atmosphere where sex and sexual orientation is discussed more openly.

i have few doubts that the BDSM scene reflects pretty accurately the cross section of sexualities similar to the vanilla scene, it's just there are more opportunities to explore and discuss openly things that perhaps don't get an airing in more general circles.

There is also an element of people identifying as bisexual who may not need a relationship with people of both sexes, but who are not completely against the idea - does this make them bisexual? Who knows...

lili x

"Show me the books he loves and I shall know the man far better than through mortal friends." (Dawn Adams)

26 Feb 08, 8:31 AM
bohemian
8 yrs
I identify myself as being hetrosexual...although I do have a strange fixation on KD Lang that I can't quite explain away! :-)
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