Posted by melody_A
on Thu 25 Mar 04, 12:32 PM to melody_A's blog.
Hey a subject I feel qualified to comment on. 
When I met Master I lived nearly 300 miles away, and with work and family commitments we only had the chance to meet up every three weeks or so. Of course we'd talk on the phone, send emails etc, but sometimes I thought the distance would kill me. At times my body ached for him to be closer, not just for play but for a cuddle also. I hated it some moments.
January, I moved to live with Master and I love it, but with hindsight I don't think the long distance thing did us any harm. In fact I think he helped form the relationship we've got now. Night after night we'd talk, about anything and everything. From feelings and dreams to currant affairs and politics. Those nights I lay curled up in bed, talking on the phone with Master gives me fond memories. We got to know each other intimately without the distractions of other things. Of course when we would meet the play was out of this world. I think I've blogged on this before but at the end of three or four intense days together we both we're completely knackered.
Of course relationships change and develop, and the natural progression for us was to be together 24/7. It was a massive move and enormous upheaval but I don't regret it for one moment.
So to all those with long distance relationships out there, look on the bright side, savour each moment together and learn to enjoy the anticipation until the next meeting. Long distance can and often does turn into 24/7 – there are many examples of this just on this site alone. I for one just love reading the blogs of those newly into relationships, be it long distance or not. I love the excitement, the eagerness, the words of devotion.
Oh god I'm obviously getting soppy in my old age! 
Mel x
Edited Thu 25 Mar 04, 12:35 PM by melody_A
