Posted by melody_A
on Thu 18 Mar 04, 5:08 PM to melody_A's blog.
I want to comment regarding the age issues both Miss N and Stormwolf raised.
I've never had a Master younger than myself, infact I've never had a Master less than ten years older than myself. I love the quiet confidence that comes with a more mature guy. Master is twenty years older than me although you'd never know it.
Now does this mean I look old for my age or Master younger? Master looks so much younger than his age and definitely acts it. He's never had children and I am of the belief that children age you, my childless friends seem to be doing so much better on the wrinkles front.
Anyway I'm digressing. Although it was never set in stone, I would never seriously consider a younger Master. So I've never been proved right or wrong with my preferences. Age is certainly not an issue in our household.
If I was a Domme I could certainly see the attraction of having a younger sub. I've never been in that position but I could imagine how nice it would be having a handsome young man at your feet. Does this mean Top/Masters/Mistresses usually prefer younger submissives? It seems to be that way.
Personally I would have been far too young at 20 to explore this side of my sexuality. I'd not long discovered sex and thought it was the most fantastic thing ever. I needed to have time being a vanilla to really appreciate just what I've discovered now.
Of course these are just my thoughts. There are many immature fifty years olds out there just as there are many mature twenty year olds.
I'm glad I've been through the experiences that I have. If I would have met Master ten years ago I would have run a mile, and who knows where I'll be in another ten years. I love the fact your sexuality constantly evolves. I want to stay curious and continue to grow sexually.
Mel x
Edited Thu 18 Mar 04, 5:11 PM by melody_A
